A little advice to lurking providers

Discussion in 'General Industry Related Topics' started by oddfellow4870, Feb 23, 2003.

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  1. justlooking

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    You know, I just read The Rules, and I have to say that Monica is right.

    There's no way that anybody who didn't know it already would know that the plethora of "no ad posting" rules at the beginning don't apply if you've purchased an ad.
  2. FoxyMonica

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    Darn you are right ! , < the Fox shakes her head and pouts like a

    spoiled little brat > :(

    ok... no 2 ways about it "right is right ", I guess I will just cross

    my tits and hope for the best .

    or I could try my best to train him ? ummmmm just a thought

    but that would be going above and beyond the call of duty

    Nawwww , I will just have to be a stand up kind of gal and take

    my chances like the rest of you have . I admit it's only fair .
  3. Casper

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    Monica great post however if you choose to take one for the team, you can't know ahead of time you'll be getting all the services you're looking for.
  4. jasonbuju

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    nobody going to care a damn about your spelling if you keep writing like that.
  5. FoxyMonica

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    one 4 the team

    Posted by Casper


    well well my dear ... I see it is the least I could do to show you gent's I can fit in around here :)

    I am very selective when spending my hard earned money on a date , I have somewhat high expectations as a hobbiest when seeking a provider for compainonship .

    He must be a true BFE that enjoys DFKing and cuddleing and some enjoyable conversation during the session , sort of breaks the ice for me to get to know him and for him to know what my pleasures for the date could consist of , IMHO sometimes what is between the ears is almost as satifying as what could happens between the sheets . I said almost ....LOL

    second of all he must love to DATYTC and enjoy drinking from the fountain that floweth over , he must know how to use his fingers well and learn by exploring my body to master what pleasures me to the fullest

    I am a multi cup kind of gal , yes I have been spoiled ! I refuse to have old gas station cups of coffee and stale donuts , I must have fresh Starbucks quality coffee and my stickey buns must be fresh from the oven . I enjoy things that smell good and must have a clean surface to eat upon !

    I also would never expect to feel as if I was being rushed or dare to catch him counting ceiling tiles , I work too hard for my money , is also why I pefer to see Independents , I dont have a stop watch on my wrist , so I expect him not to have one either .

    He must not have a Madam or big butch driver /bodygard waiting outside , it makes me feel uneasy .

    I know my expectations are high ...so what ? its my money and I always look for a good service any where I go ,so why should this nature of service be any diffrent ?

    I am such a good hearted person and willing to bite the bullett and take one for the team for you guys , I will post a detailed review after the fact .

    SOOOOO whom would ya'all suggest I should take this chance with ? don't forget he must be BFE and have an AD on this site , we must play by all the rules , hey lol it is only fair and it is I that is at a huge risk taking one for the team .....lol the ladies team :) :)

    top 3 picks only please !



    LOL I sure hope you guys know I am just being silly ;)

    Casper ya forced me to walk into that one LOL

    have a good day , multi cups 4 all !!!

    and yes my spelling always sucks , no need to rub it in lol
    some things that suck are sometimes not so bad ;)

    FoxyLadyMonica
  6. MagicTongue

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    Monica

    If questions like "should you warn the escort giving you head
    that you are about to cum" or "is Cristy Devon 'barely worth
    the effort, i should have stayed home", then you will enjoy
    Utopia Guide.
    But for us guys who are clients there is little usable info to
    be gleaned due to all the RULES. Of all my favorite escorts
    that i have had appointments with here in the Philadelphia
    and south jersey area, NONE OF THEM ADVERTIZE HERE!!
    I found out about them elsewhere. If you are pursuing a
    degree in psycology , this is a great place. LOL
  7. Casper

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    But will you take one for the team? :D

    Monica WELCOME to UG.
  8. buddyyy

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    While you are welcome to participate in any forum, once you have an ad and want to post information about your availability it is probably most appropriate to do that in one of the regional forums.

    As you can see by the message counts it appears that the majority of the focus here is in the northeast, particularly the great New York metropolitan area. I would imagine that you are likely to have the greatest response when you are in this area.

    I also would suggest that you do not confine your posting to promotional announcements. Participating in the forums will provide the opportunity for guys to get to know you and will probably result in a better response to your promotional posts.

    Of course to the extent that such is the case, one might raise the question of whether, in fact, any post by a service provider can be anything but promotional. We need not address that here though since that is an issue that has been, and probably will continue to be, addressed on a number of other threads.

    Good luck to you. While I still have a bit of confusion concerning the nuances of the some of the services you offer it probably would be better to wait until your ad is up before addressing those.
  9. FoxyMonica

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    I will take out a ad for a month, just to see how it works here

    and if all goes well I will extend my ad for up to six months at a time .

    I did read that others post ad's here in the general discussion forum and then re read the rules saying that it will not go unnoticed .

    that is the part I did not understand .
    I am a team player and I just did not want to introduce my self here in the wrong way .

    I look forward to meeting some of you soon :)

    thanks for helping out this newbie xoxo

    Foxy Monica
  10. buddyyy

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    It is my understanding that once you place an ad there is no problem posting where and when you are going to be available.

    For example:

    http://www.utopiaguide.com/forums/t15616.html

    http://www.utopiaguide.com/forums/t15617.html

    http://www.utopiaguide.com/forums/t15456.html

    http://www.utopiaguide.com/forums/t15581.html

    I think if you read through the threads you will get a better understanding of what is OK and what is not.

    If you are a provider and you use your professional name as your handle it probably is a good idea to take out an ad.

    If you want to participate in the discussion but not take out an ad using a different handle helps a lot.
  11. FoxyMonica

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    I tried to edit my post

    But the time line of 3 whole min expired , I was gonna bascily according to rules have to take out my whole post :(

    I read the rules here for the first time tonight , and was serious about advertising , but with all the NO's why would a girl want to ? and is pretty ovious in the rules that the female gender does not qualitfy for respect here ? WTF ?

    the way I understand is even if I pay $$$ for a banner ad , I still can not post on the forums when and where I will be ? so for myself there is no point ,IMHO the policys here does not benifit the independent girl , I do well on my own rep and word of mouth and the many many reviews I have on other sites .

    I just happen to own a message /review site in another state so I can understand that each to their own on rules and policys

    so be it , rules is rules ! I can see why there are not many providers here . why would they want to spend $$$ to be made fun of if they have questions and have limited advertising abilities.

    sorry for the big NO NO in the above post .

    please enlighten me if I am wrong about all the above .

    I would end this post with hugs and kisses but as I see that is against the rules too lol

    everyone have a great day !
  12. FoxyMonica

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    wow I just loged back on here after all this time , and saw this post ,Thank you for your reply , yes I would like to travel to the Long Island area and to the City from time to time ,not just limited to the summer months , I have been twice now and had shared some wonderful dreams on my visits , Boca Raton is only a 2 hr ride away :) ,I am well reviewed in my neck of the woods , I will contact support to see how I may post my ad's and learn how I may have the pleasure to spoil some of you cityboys here in Utopia land

    and do I swallow ? lol BBBJTCNS adleast Im honest :)

    Hugs and DFK's xoxo FoxyMonica
  13. h. von bingen

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    speak for yourself, i was enjoying the challenge.
  14. h. von bingen

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    kindest words i ever said to you:

    please watch your step with that. as vices go (drinking) is a killer.
  15. justlooking

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    [We're all so beaten down that now a 10-minute edit period looks like a treat.]
  16. justlooking

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    No. It's reprehensible to get someone drunk. But it's unforgivably sloppy to also get yourself drunk in the process. I'm deeply ashamed.
    Last edited: Jun 9, 2003
  17. h. von bingen

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    oh you say that but you know we are ONE. (snarf). like steve martin and lily tomlin.
  18. h. von bingen

    h. von bingen Sharon

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    you had donald rumsfeld to dinner?
  19. justlooking

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    (Actually, for completely independent reasons, I'm not, either.)
  20. justlooking

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    hvb wouldn't be particulary pleased with my conduct last night, either.