a new approach, same old search

Discussion in 'New York' started by BigMadM, May 6, 2006.

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  1. NewYorker

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    That grows out of what I said.

    I've never met a woman who didn't expect something of value just for the *possibility* of something sensual.

    Think about it. What percentage of women volunteer to pay their own way when they are taken ou to dinner, movies, ect?

    I want to point out that this was gathered from my experiences with mostly black women who are notoriously materialistic.(I'm a black male).

    Of course there are exceptios to every rule, but now that I'm over 40, being practical tells me that if I haven't found that pot of gold then it probably will not happen.(That's why I find myself reading and posting to this forum).
  2. NewYorker

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    Not as far as the sex that is expected and received by the man versus anything of value that is expected and received by the woman.
  3. nyclap

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    You're right - I had forgotten about the new "work or go to school" rule for welfare. That explains a lot - I couldn't for the life of me figure out why all these young moms were hanging around LaGuardia Comm College.
  4. Bandaid

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    That's what I'd want to do, too, and if you like it everybody else should STFU about it. That's the situation I wanted, and if I could get a situation like that I'd go for it in a minute. You're lucky you found one who lives up to the deal.

    And you deal is at least time-honored. "You take care of me I'll take care of you" was how life worked between men and women for centuries. The idea of love-mate is a recent one.
  5. BigMadM

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    welfare is making the single moms work for their checks, and I also think they let them attend school while collecting. Starting monday, might be 80 old men standing outside the humanities buildings with hardons.
  6. nyclap

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    I think LaGuardia Community College in LIC is Ground Zero in Queens for these type of girls
  7. JaxHammer

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    Paterson has plenty of cheap pussy enjoy!
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  8. Rokin

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    Intimacy.
    Nothing like it
  9. BigMadM

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    its almost impossible to just pick some girl randomly.
    I see tons of them also.
    Ive often thought of hanging out outside the food stamp office, hehehehe.....
    Every young women Ive met in the past decade, that was not a real pro, but willing to fuck for money, I guess then she became a real pro, was dealt to me by some other escort or retired escort. Usually its a roomy, or close friend that knows about the girls life as an escort, and sees how some of the girls actually make ends meet and get out of the financial mess they were in that made them fuck for money in the first place.
    I was introduced to 2 friends by this mentioned former escort.
    The first one, was young 21, not a beauty, but hey, 21, willing to fuck, and we met, and I was stupid. She was willing to shoot over to the Golden Gate in bklyn for a tryout, she was in need of money that day, but I wasnt in sucha rush, having fucked someone earlier that day, I was done. So I gave the girl 50 bucks to get some things, as a good will gesture, and then she dissapeared. My own fault, but it wasnt a big deal. the next girl turned out perfect, same escort reco'd her to me.
    Im not stupid, Im sure Im not the only one these girls have fucked for money, but I think they dont have the time with young babies to see more then one guy at a time, so at least I might be that one schmuck now.
  10. nyclap

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    I swear I see these girls all around Queens. Cute little things, maybe 20, 22 yrs old, pushing around a baby stroller with a 2 year old in it, maybe with Grandmami hanging around too. I know that I could make a difference in these girls' lives financially, and I know they could do a lot for me, but I haven't got a freaking clue how to get the transaction going.
  11. Traderdave

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    Bmm Do I Hear T H R E E S O M E!!!!!!
  12. jras

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    words to live by
  13. BigMadM

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    you have to pay attention.
    I used to see a pro escort who retired young,
    I saw her privately on and off for a year or so, then she introduced me to one of her friends.
    Its pretty simple.
    Find a girl desperate enough to do what she has to do to make the rent.
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  14. vermeer

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    my birthday is next week, hook a nigga up!!
  15. vermeer

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    You still have not told us where you find these hewrs!! Pray tell, my round friend!
  16. BigMadM

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    before guys like JP attack me, which I probably deserve, all this kissing and pussy eating, Id just like to say that this is far beyond the whore/john type of deal.
    I dare not say boyfriend/girlfriend, but she doesnt seem to mind any of it.
    And shes not raking me for alot of money.
    I guess this is what sugarbaby, sugardaddy is. Even though money is involved, noone talks about it, its just given, and no mention of repayment is mentioned, its just sex, as much as I want, whenever I want.
  17. BigMadM

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    the funniest part of all of this, and this is the truth, I never, ever kissed a whore before as part of the hourly service. I rarely kissed a UTR girl, or any type of pay venue woman. Even the few decent pickups Ive had in my life, I rarely put much emphasis on kissing, unless the woman initiates it, but as far as the hobby, I never enjoyed this, or found it stimulating.
    Recently, Ive kissed more and more.
    This girl, as fucking stupid as this sounds, I look foward to the kissing, cause she loves to thrust her tongue, (pierced), deep into my mouth, and play.
    And she loves to just keep doing it.
    I sat on the edge of the bed today, before a shower, she was in her jeans, and just had a bra on, and she sat on my lap, and we made out for at least 8-10 minutes, like fucking highschoolers, it was pathetic, but I have to admit, no matter how big a pussy I look like, I really dug it, and I had such great fucking wood, she musta rised a few inches off my lap.
    I come out of the shower, she goes in, I lay on the bed, she comes out, she lays on top of me and starts sticking her tongue down my throat again, and Im all for it . I cant get enough of her kissing. I dont know whats wrong with me, I try to analyze this shit as Im driving home.
    I figured my loss of staying power these days for 3 or 4 shots, maybe the kissing is a substitute, who the fuck knows, and I dont really care, cause it feels fucking fabulous, and thats what the bottom line is all about.
    (ok, I will admit when she licks my testicles, its pretty good also, but her kissing is just amazing.)
  18. wanguy30

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    Best of luck to you BMM on your new approach. It's kind of ironic in a way. Most guys see providers to have sex without the attachment. It sounds to me you're looking for sex with the attachment. Guess you've come full circle. It's a unique approach, I envy your situation and hope this arrangement will make you happy. Cheers!
  19. BigMadM

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    after a few good hours of sex play today, I found out my sugar baby enjoys women more than men. Not that that suprises me, I seem to always find the tough nuts to crack. Lotta work, seems they get the most pleasure from another woman, but a good hard cock puts a smile on their face now and then also.
  20. moneyshotsnj

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    Easy for you to say