To the title thread.... Anything and everything is possible. Knowing this is a major part of the fun and adventure of AMPs. It may not always be practical in the legit spa setting depending on privacy, and mama's presence and strictness (although with VIP status there is greater allowances), but with a few visits, Wechat exchange, and winning thier trust (they generally have a distrust of a man's sincerity at first), outside meetings on their day off are easy. For me, Flushing is at least a 90 minute drive and would take up the better part of a day. Being married, I also do not want to get overly, emotionally involved with any one gal or deceive her into thinking I may provide a future for her. Outside meeting can lead to this. Therefore, personally, I maintain what I call a "harem". One hour visits with many, many different gals and good relationships with the mamas in approx. 7 legit shops (all that are available in my area). Again, to the title thread, "practice yields expertise" in interacting postitively with the gals ( primarily Chinese in my case) working at the AMPs. Their lives are generally very monotonous and boring, and if you can bring something different to their table (i.e. Friendliness, animation, confidence, teaching. Etc.), you can easily reap the feasts from the table. Actually, the many hours I spent/spend each week in legit AMPs was my education in understanding and dealing with the China woman, so that my graduation one year ago into the the FS Asian Agencies provided me the tools to get the most out of my sessions knowing what wins their interest beyond just the money, and I test this,always, by keeping the money as minimal yet "undefacing" as possible.