be careful what you wish for

Discussion in 'General Industry Related Topics' started by BigMadM, Jan 10, 2006.

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  1. curious

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    Matt 13:13
  2. justlooking

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    Isn't it obvious?
  3. nychelsea

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    When I think more about this, it occurs to me that with many of the ladies business is business, and they want to keep their personal lives separate. This is an interesting attitude - it would be fun to do a working girl survey to learn the real reasons why they want to maintain the separation. Anyone want to speculate on their reasons?

    Don't worry, be happy,

    Chels
  4. nychelsea

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    The personal relationship aspect is interesting. On the one "hand" it is personal as long as you are paying. On the other, there is the occasional lady who wants a relationship over a long period of time BUT you will still have to pay - rent money, pay bills money, clothes and *****ry money: be prepared to pay and pay (and hopefully continue to play!).

    I continue to have long term "relationships" with a number of tantra, massage, and high end escorts. However, I have no illusions that I must continue to pay and pay and pay!

    Have fun everyone,

    Chels
  5. sean960

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    Missing NY


    See this is why I miss NY,you guys have it figured out and are always(almost) on the money.I'm glad I came back to the board,I needed to get my head back into the game,because that is really what this is,isn't it ? The 2 or 5 hour sessions,the real names,things I would have never considered any of that two years ago....my god someone smack me...no more nice guy...
  6. justme

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    1. I think it's hard to spend a lot of time with someone and not develop some kind of personal relationship.

    2. There's something in the DIDN'T, I suspect. I think for a lot of guys (and perhaps especially the ones that end up entangled) - the sex is just part of the picture...
  7. sean960

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    Aint That The Truth

    KINDA SAYS IT ALL,DOESN'T IT ?
  8. donquixote04

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    Does anyone else think that reading Kassy's posts is like watching a time bomb, hearing the ticking, and waiting for the explosion?
  9. kassyS

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    Speaking this way, I might as well say that, I might as well stick to my own husband, one is more than any woman needs. Perhaps.

    Yeah, I was on the other side of the coin,so to speak.

    Speaking from my view point, it is tremedously difficult just to settle down to one sex partner after having had so many.

    Speaking in terms of analogy, it is like having access to all variety of flavors at an ice cream shop, and after you select one, that is the only flavor you can have.

    Ahh, the hell with it, I just live one day at a time.

    Yeah, I am faithful. Ha, I cannot believe I said that, but I am.
    But there always to longing to do something else. And I am pulled in one direction and then again pulled in another direction.

    Oh, well, enjoy it while it lasts. May be by this time next year, I may be back on the streets again. Shit, I knew it was too good to last.
  10. nychelsea

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    It is good to be back on the board, and to read the wisdom of Wwanderer and BigMadM!

    I love variety,

    Chels
  11. nychelsea

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    For me, the whole experience is important. Setting up the meeting. Having lunch or dinner or a drink beforehand. Good conversation is critical - is the woman interesting or a bimbo? The excitement of never knowing quite what a new girl will do. Therefore, it becomes a multi-hour program. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. GFE is the way for me - much more erotic. Yes, it is expensive! But we all have the right to choose our spending.

    Enjoy,

    Chels
  12. BigMadM

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    gentleman? Why should I care if she marries a black guy, Ive been married to a black woman for over 25 years.

    Empire, thats pretty funny.

    You might get a car and a few old shirts.
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  13. vermeer

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    if it works out i might want to marry her. i want to be in line to inherit the bmm retailing empire. i'll back that brinks truck right up to the bmm estate!!!
    yeah baybeeee!!

    i can't wait to start exploiting my peoples with expired batteries, grey market jherri curl, and cheap fu lighters!!!

    you wouldn't mind if your nubile daughter married an elderly black gentleman, would you?


  14. redleg609

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    Agreed

    I'm a sumguy. G_d forbid but I have 3 ATFs. Diana from the-independent-girl-agency which shall not be mentioned, Gabriella from Joy's companions in Philly and AureliaSpice, all who have been reviewed here by me and some by others. I have posted reviews of all three on a variety of occassions.

    The thing is, why are they ATFs for me. And the answer is that there is (or, if you are a cynic, which I can be, appears to be) something more than a commercial relationship depending on how the customer treats them.

    I have no problem admitting to wanting more than a commercial relationship and I have known plenty of them where the provider went that extra step. But, if I get the strictly TRANSACTIONAL feeling, no return visit. I never go to a provider as if it were entirely commercial. That is, I try to always treat a woman as a person and not an object. I think this is the great "There are two kinds of people, those who treat providers as objects and those who treat providers as people."

    And here's the thing, life is complex. If you see a woman who is peddling her ass, you get a transaction. Sometimes, you see a woman who is a PERSON engaging in commercial sex; yes to make money but for some customers able to see beyond the transaction.

    And one of life's complexities is that some people want a commercial/transactional relationship and some don't. OTH there are some providers that can provide both and some that can only provide the transaction. That's the way it is. One is not better than the other. They are just preferences or defenses from the situation or ....

    What does this have to do with BMM's current situation. He ran into a provider appeared to be strictly transactional but turned out to be not so.
  15. BigMadM

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    Ill mention it to her. I think a few of her friends might be interested.
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  16. vermeer

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    so you don't have a firm commitment to pay $2k, or whatever monthly? that's great. you're one crafty mofo. where did you this hoo? is she privatized? is it blondekelly?

    hey is your daughter in college yet? if she wants to make some extra money, i might be interested.
  17. BigMadM

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    its a mostly set plan. Sort of like renting time for a season at a racketball court.
    Im willing to pay 4-5 bucks each week, for one daytime session. I dont want to look at clocks, and if I need 5 hours, so be it.
    It usually works out to 3-4 hours, but when the need arises, I may visit more often than once a week, and then I will add a hundred, maybe 2 depending on time. Its all based on time.
    I figure most of the girls net at least 125/hour. More recently, they do alot better than that, cause I putter out and leave.
  18. robnotbob

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    And here I am, trying to be all nice and shit.

    Fuck that.
  19. vermeer

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    bmm, i'm curious. what is the total $comp package you extend your fuckpigs? do you have any kind of 'memo of undertsanding' in writing?
    any pension plan? stock options? is it a triple-net type of lease? and do you have to pay for repairs to their asshole, after you're done wrecking it?
  20. billyS

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    Been there, done that. Thank god that 'phase' is over for me. Much better to fuck an $80 Dominican or Columbian who can't speak english and just leave after I cum then to get those two hour sessions where sometimes you pay sometimes you don't and after a while you know each others real first and last names
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