Nobel, I think that's best. Stay away for a little while until your head is clear. Besides, sooner or later (hopefully sooner) you'll hit the point wherein you're ready to get back out there in terms of both dating and hobbying and it'll be fun as opposed to torturous. Here's to similarities! As for me, things are quiet. I'm slowly becoming interested in dating again, and am beginning to think about planning another excursion to the wondrous clubs of Amsterdam. Even the Walletjes starts to hop again a bit in late April, so it seems like it's time to return (I went once in January, and there were about 3 windows open—including this one incredibly attractive, really mean Russian girl who once was mean to me when I wouldn't meet her ridiculously inflated fee; now, every time I pass her she frowns at me.... I wonder if she's still there). All in all, though, I prefer the clubs; they're definitely the best GFE I can imagine.