Best GFE for Money

Discussion in 'New York' started by Nobel, Apr 7, 2001.

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  1. HAPPY GUY

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    Nobel, I think that's best. Stay away for a little while until your head is clear. Besides, sooner or later (hopefully sooner) you'll hit the point wherein you're ready to get back out there in terms of both dating and hobbying and it'll be fun as opposed to torturous.

    Here's to similarities!

    As for me, things are quiet. I'm slowly becoming interested in dating again, and am beginning to think about planning another excursion to the wondrous clubs of Amsterdam. Even the Walletjes starts to hop again a bit in late April, so it seems like it's time to return (I went once in January, and there were about 3 windows open—including this one incredibly attractive, really mean Russian girl who once was mean to me when I wouldn't meet her ridiculously inflated fee; now, every time I pass her she frowns at me.... I wonder if she's still there).

    All in all, though, I prefer the clubs; they're definitely the best GFE I can imagine.
  2. Carl M

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    Noble Its the Intangible Qualities!

    For this no one come close to Dawn in all price ranges!! For 4 years I never saw any providers for longer than 1 hour, until I met Dawn- she is the only one I would see for 2 or more hours!! Once you see her you will be hooked- you can take that to the bank(pardon the pun)
  3. Tankcommander

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    It's been a week since my breakup...

    And the pain is still excruciating...
    I haven't been able to see a provider, even as a coping mechanism.

    It's not a bad thing though... I can think of worse things, Drugs, alcohol...self-inflicted wounds....

    I think I'll stick with providers.
  4. Nobel

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    Happy Guy

    Happy Guy,

    We seem to be suffering from similar predicaments. Broken hearts, boredom with the typical providers, and a yearning for the treasures of Europe.

    I think I will hold off on hobbying for now - until I get in a state of mind where I actually enjoy the experience and not use it as a coping mechanism.
  5. Nobel

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    LIDAWN

    Thank you for the sweet note Dawn :)

    I guess we all have to accept life - good and bad - and learn to get over our losses.

    I don't even know if pursuing my hobby has any relevance to how I feel but I just wonder sometimes.

    I must say though, a lot of providers are more sensitive and caring than the random women one might run into at a bar.
  6. HAPPY GUY

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    Nobel, maybe you should take a little break from hobbying if you think it's preventing you from finding someone new. The purpose of it is supposed to be for fun, not to hold you back in any way (in this case, finding a significant other).

    My situation is similar to yours: newly single, not particularly happy about it. So, encounters with providers helps to make the time much more pleasant.

    Maybe you need to look at things from another angle? Would it help, or only make things worse?

    Anyway, I always think that change is a good thing. Definitely don't do something that makes you feel bad (and I am not one to normally discourage someone from pursuing the hobby).
  7. LIDAWN

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    poor nobel

    i feel bad for you being so sad.. I hope you find what you need.. girlfriend new date or what ever .. do not like to hear of such sadness.... feel frre to email me even if it is only just to chat sometime for a womans perspective.. or just a empty ear to listen...
    Hopefully things will cheer up for you..
    I am sending hugzzz and sunshine your way..

    personnally i cannot wait for the sun so i can hit the robert moses field five for some sun..
    giddiup
    XXOO
    DAWN

    http://www.cajuncumfort.com
  8. Nobel

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    Happy Guy

    "If you don't have a new person, then a provider can do that. "

    Well, not really. If anything, I think my increased pursuit of my hobby is keeping me from finding that new person....it's making me an emotional dwarf (it's common after painful break-ups).
  9. HAPPY GUY

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    Nobel, I guess it follows this way: you know how when you break up with someone, nothing helps you get over the old person like the new person? If you don't have a new person, then a provider can do that. It's really a valuable service in terms of that, and after I break up with someone one of the first things I tend to do is to call a provider. It really helps me.

    Tankcommander, I didn't get the number. It never occured to me, and as I mentioned I was a bit sozzled. The next time I get a VV, I'll see if I can find the same ad and have the same woman sent over. I'll try to get a name and contact information. It's a long shot, but it might work. I'd like to see her again, anyway.

    As I mentioned before, I find those sorts of places to be a roll of the dice. More often than not, the session is a disappointment. I got lucky.
  10. Nobel

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    GFE

    I didn't mean to imply that GFE is about just BBBJ and/or DFK. It means different things to different people...
  11. Ozzy

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    language has nothing to with GFE......

    marina whom i think is one of the best, barely spoke a word of english when i first met her 3 years ago. today she speaks it very well. there is no difference in our meetings from then to now.



    :cool:
  12. RoosterC74

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    Response to Fishfry

    Fishfry,

    I read your post about Nicole's and the language problem at times. Have you tried Cecilia when she is at Nicole's? From personal experience, she has provided me with a GFE several times. And as an added bonus, she provided this Rooster with one of the best French Lessons he has ever encountered.

    [Edited by RoosterC74 on 04-08-2001 at 08:17 AM]
  13. Tankcommander

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    So Happy Guy,

    Did you get a number of the cute freckle faced girl?
    I'd like that number...
  14. fishfry

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    GFE isn't the same as bbbj

    You can get a bbbj just about anywhere if you seem reasonably clean. You can get a bbbj from a street prostitute.

    GFE involves a degree of interpersonal relating.

    I cannot agree with those who think Nicole Rio's girls give a GFE. If they don't speak a word of English how can you relate?

    A GFE is much much more than just a bareback suck.
  15. Nobel

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    Getting over

    Happy Guy,

    I am glad the hobby helped you get over the break-up. It hasn't helped me much...sure it has been fun for the hours when I've been engaged in it, but I walk out of these places and I'm right back to feeling the pain. I broke up in late February and have been with about 7 providers since then (including in Germany). I usually see that many over 7 months.....

    I guess the two aren't related for some people....separate the hobby from emotions.
  16. robnotbob

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    Agree with oz...marina at $$
    Dawn at $$$
    If you can get to Vegas..Jackie Jewel $$$$$
  17. HAPPY GUY

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    Nobel, I agree with you. Europe kicks New York's ass in a quick minute in terms of hobbying. As soon as I have a new job and my tax return arrives, I'm off to Amsterdam to celebrate rejoining the workforce. Or at least back to my normal hobbying here.

    As for your second question, when I broke up with my girlfriend in January (the former provider that I recently mentioned), the night we finally ended things for good was the culmination of a stretch of unhappiness. As I walked home, drunk and unhappy, from a SoHo bar I stopped at a deli, picked up the Village Voice and hit the ATM. Once I got home, I called a random ad and they offered to send a blonde over for $200. I was fearing the worst, but a very cute, freckled young woman arrived (I think I may have mentioned her in a previous post). She was attractive, friendly, fun, and easygoing, and we had a great time together. It definitely helped me to get over things with my ex.
  18. Tankcommander

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    Lisa has been a great comfort during my breakup...

    She even prompted me to go to work on those mornings I couldn't bring myself to do it...
  19. Nobel

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    Break-up

    Any hobbyists ever become more active after breaking up with their girlfriends? I have and it's a strange feeling. It does surprisingly little to cope with the emotional pain, regardless of how great the experiences with the providers are. It's an interesting dynamic...obviously providers are not meant to replace girlfriends but for that hour they provide an escape.
  20. Nobel

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    Something New

    Happy Guy,

    I'm definitely looking to try something new too. Kinda bored with the typical $$+1/2 midtown incalls...rarely anything good....recently splurged (by my wallet's standards at least) $$$$ for a provider from Glamour Beauties and got nothing but eye-candy.

    One thing about going to Europe, it raises the bar to unrealistic levels for New York :)