JustMe, I'm very laid back, content with my life...no hang ups no regrets and always try to see the good and bright side of all situations. Who knows? the guys could be creeps and not showing up they might saved me from aggravations. There are only two things we don't have control over: death and terminal diseases. Anything else in life has a solution...just need to find it. I don't know if I will be here tomorrow, or in the next few minutes...so I try to enjoy life to the fullest.