You are correct. Bad choice of words on my part. But it goes back to the selling guns and ski masks example I made earlier. Sure, there are those who can purchase this combo and the seller never need worry about having contributed to something gone wrong. Still, common sense would have to dictate to the person who sells this combo that there is a very good likelihood that some of his/her clients are going to take what they purchased and do wrong with it. At some point folks like S.A. have to acknowledge to themselves that they aren't part of the solution, but part of the problem, if they truly think that telling a lie to a loved one to cover ones philandering is a major problem. Again, I don't think that, so I don't believe she is, part of the problem that is.