Discussion in 'Latin America/South America/Caribbean' started by mikehunt200820, May 16, 2011.
Since it cost 200 pesos a minute, the prefer to have us call them. Its no big deal.
They say that as many as 90% in Medellin have turned a trick at least once. They will always need something and return to it.
I am on my 5th year now and I find that 90% of them have their first kid around age 18-21. Many times the daddy just moves on.
I think if you were going to apoligize to Mike you should have left out the bull shit again in your opening statement. Mike posted a nice review and you tried to analyze him. Two statements here...Sorry and mind your own business would have been fitting. Try again this time mean it.
I enjoyed reading his post also, I just found his obsession with this one girl very strange. She must be very good at what she does for him to come away feeling like that. Now, I don't know the guy but I'm sure he is a nice guy by his empathy for these people but he needs to know it is what he paid her for.
I would also like to apologize for my first post, I could of been less confrontational or better yet minded my own business.
No need to justify your behaviour in here...
This is a big fucking glass house we're hanging out in. Post on man, I for one enjoyed the show.
and many that do don't have enough $ to put minutes on them so they call, ring once, and hang up...
Nice Jimydr! I'm sure they appreciate your kindness
There are many very sweet, sweet girls there who are in the profession out of much more necessity than the pro's in the US. Most Americans cant comprehend how a majority of those girls in Medellin are absolutely dirt poor and have usually had one or two children by the time they are 18. They have not choice but to sell their bodies to survive. Not the same as a majority of prostitutes in America or the developed world who are in the business as a choice or because of drug abuse. The girls I met were for the most part very sweet, loving, and looking for their "white knight".
Too bad some mongers just don't get it.
Yes paperpusher, you are right that many times it comes back to bite guys in the ass, however I know of some guys who met girls in these circumstances and it worked out. My friends and I even had a debate if we could take a girl out of that lifestyle if we found a special one. I was of the mindset that it couldn't work, but when I met Paulina, we connected in a way I rarely have with any women, let alone pro's. I know some can't comprehend this is possible and some think I'm a sick bastard who's just taking advantage of them, the reality is that without my $ they, and their children might starve. At least I don't rape them, burn them with cigarettes, hit them, or abuse them like many of the men in their lives have done. The provide companionship and I give them $. At least it is a mutually beneficial relationship unlike lawyers who screw you AND charge for it.
I have about a dozen amigas there now and they are poor, but they are getting by, especially when I come to town.
I liked your reort and I was in Thailand and Colombia and agree with you.
Not all the chicas own a phone there.
I stopped posting there years ago.
When you put all the BS morality aside that our wonderful religions bestow on us, the hooker/john relationship is one of commerce. Do you take advatage of your denist, when you pay him? It is a business arrangement necessiated based upon one's job skills and the available demand. Can you be friends with your dentist? CAn you become romantically involved with a dentist?
But any kind of job, it is not hard to screw your life up, get involved in gangs/drugs or get on the wrong track. Hookers do not have a monopoly on this. And not all hookers are screwed up.
You have pity for them, yet you take advantage of them.
Piece of advice that you never asked for. White knights rarely work. Been there done that and can match sob story for sob story.
The bottom line, they are broken people and it will come back to bite you in the ass. These women (and some men too) project this needy aura, that you want to protect them, but you just cannot undo all the damage already done. At some point, they will turn on you and you will never understand why.
Came so close to marrying one too.
To the Douche Bag
Wow..thanks for the harsh criticism. Are you some sort of freakin saint? Of course not! I did not write my review to have some jerk like you come and judge me as a someone with "sick behavior who needs help". Obviously you pay for sex and have posted on this forum, so perhaps you need help for your own sick behavior.
And secondly, you weren't there and have no right to judge me. Have you ever been to Colombia, Thailand, or some other 3rd world country???? Have you ever seen how poor those people are? Do you have any concept of how someone could be "owned" by gang members and forced into prostitution? Do you understand that a majority of these women have little to no education, have children in their teens, and they hope and pray some gringo will come and save them from their horrible lives??? Can you comprehend how her trying to get out could risk her life and her child's??? From how you judge me it appears you do not have a clue! You were not there and if you cannot possible comprehend how this poor girl and I communicated and understood each other.
Perhaps next time you should keep your opinions to yourself.
Love how everyone analyzes a good heart felt post/ If you don't like it why comment.
Listen no offense but you need help because this is sick behavior. For Christ sakes dude you only spent 3 hrs with her using a translator app on your phone as the only means of communication. She avoided you because no doubt you freaked her out big time. And I got news for you everybody owns a phone and it's probably the first thing she bought after her first trick.
Thanks Jimydr. Your WSA adventures always inspired me
Very nice report. Dumb move on the bareback.
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