Does sticking with one provider get boring?

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  1. oddfellow4870

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    Work ethic

    Work ethic is the key. It's more important than any of the other factors.

    I saw one Indy who was master of variety, but was pretty cold. The porn star experience and her great massage skills maintained my interest for two years. She had trouble creating the illusion of intimacy.

    My first ATF had a great personality and amazing oral and massage skills, but she got lazy and we started doing a lot of off-topic things in our sessions. Our last session was one where she "sent" me out for her lunch.

    I saw my last ATF for two years and would have seen her for an open ended period if she had not gone back to Korea. Skills and warmth were not the only factors. She never let down. She never tried to use me for special favors. The illusion of imtimacy was maintained throughout the session, but ended at the end of each session. She worked at it and maintained her effort without fail.

    If a girl knows her business and maintains a strong work ethic, she can keep regulars for as long as their money holds out. That doesn't mean that all Johns want regulars, of course.
  2. justlooking

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    Maybe Amy and Kassy are saying that, for them, there ARE no customers whom they don't see as "cocks attached to ATMs."

    (Note how this discussion overlaps with the one I'm having with Amy on the Amy Review thread on the New York board.)
  3. Slinky Bender

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    To some extent, this is where the "personal chemistry" part comes in: for the vast amount of customers who are simply "cocks attached to ATMs", Kassy's statments apply, as such customers are fungible. OTOH, almost everyone has at least one, and many several, customers who (and NB I'm not saying that they would be fucking them for free) for whatever reason, find the sessions on the enjoyable/bearable/"I recognise him as a human being" end of the scale. For those clients, there is a little more "want" to keep them, as opposed to whatever nameless, faceless trick who would walk thru the door in their stead.
  4. kassyS

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    Well, well, it is the law of dimishing returns here.
    When you are thirsty, the first cold beer tastes awful good.
    The next less so, the one after, even less so, and on and on.

    yeah, when I was a provider, I began feeling that way towards my
    regulars. Did not really try to put as much.
    I did just enough to earn my money, and felt sometimes though
    I wish I stayed in the watching TV.

    Well, how many way can you fry a chicken?
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  5. miss1971

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    very true....people look for different things in providers though...i 'personally' have a short attention span when it comes to men .....it doesn't matter how good they are in the sack....once the thrill is gone its JUST GONE...
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  6. justlooking

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    I'm not sure, but I think the first part of your post (the part about wives) proves my point more than yours.

    As for the second part of your post (the part about you), I didn't say it was an ironclad rule. Just something that in my years of whoreboard reading seems to be true much more often than not. (Maybe it makes a difference that the customers you talk about presumably aren't guys who habitually post on whoreboards. That means they probably aren't as rabid addicts as we regular posters are.)
  7. miss1971

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    why???? people get bored of fucking their wives bareback!!!! so why not a provider? i've had a few of the same clients for ten years.....from 3 days after i came to nyc till yesterday at 7pm.....twice a month....my session is the same as it always was and will be....
  8. popeye

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    Disadvantages of LTR (non romance) with an AMP:

    1. She’ll want you to call her and see how she is doing on occasion.

    2. She wants to be treated like a lady, expects little gift items.

    3. She’ll watch you like a hawk, second-guessing your every move to see if she can really trust you- this is quite a pain.

    4. When that trust is broken, terms such as: “you so strong”,“you so big”, and “you so handsome” become “you so weak”, “you average”, “you look so-so”, and my favorite “you no pay me, who give you sex!!!!”

    5. When you take her up on her offer to bang other women, one day in a fit of rage she’ll say to you, “If you like me so much how come you see other girlz- you like fuckee everybody!!!!!” Don’t you even try to rationalize this one, it is a losing battle, and in her eyes you are more of a whore than she is, and can never be trusted.

    6. She starts asking you for a massage, and sometimes gets lazy with the service offerings. Kind of feels she can get away with shit with you. This is where you have to put your foot down and don’t take any bullshit from them.

    7. Starts trying to get a little into your business. How much you make, whether you are married, do you have children, can you help her out with stuff around the house, do you want to go shopping with her, do you want to go to karaoke, etc.

    As you can see everything has its risks and rewards.
  9. popeye

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    Advantages of LTR (non romance) with an AMP:

    1. She knows your likes and dislikes and provides service accordingly

    2. She actually develops feelings for you and the sessions become more intimate.

    3. Your time with her is extended and not limited to seeing her for just an hour. Yet you still pay the standard fee.

    4. When you are low on funds, she may throw you a free one, or offer a discount.

    5. She’ll be open to sexual experimenting, without jacking the fee up on you

    6. Booty calls during off business hours are permitted. As a matter of fact business is always open for you- regardless of the company hours. If you want it during her monthly maroon high tide, she’ll even do it- not recommended in the least bit.

    7. If she truly likes you, she’ll recommend you occasionally bang another girl- ostensibly one of her friends, so that you don’t get bored with her.
  10. popeye

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    A corrolary to this is, many girls who do BBFS aren't going to do it with anyone but regulars, so you have to become one first to get it.[/QUOTE]


    This is scary but so true....
  11. vorhaut

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    I wouldn't want to become a regular without having gotten 1, 2 & 3 on the first visit.
  12. justlooking

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    Speaking ONLY for myself, I don't think I'd get past "1st visit" the way you're describing it.
  13. Slinky Bender

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    Perhaps restating that: "it's the same pussy, so she's got to do something 'new' to keep him coming back". For a certain percentage of sex workers, that something new eventually is BBFS. You can exchange "greek" and/or DFK with BBFS if you want to for this arguement.

    How many times has someone gone thru:

    1st visit, "standard service"
    2nd visit, BBBJ or DFK
    3rd visit, whicher of the two in 2) they didn't get the second visit
    4th visit, an extra half hour "because she likes you and wants you to stay longer"

    A corrolary to this is, many girls who do BBFS aren't going to do it with anyone but regulars, so you have to become one first to get it.
  14. justlooking

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    It's more like -- I'm not saying this about anybody who's posted in this thread, just generally -- anytime you see someone saying, "I've been seeing the same girl for five years, and I never get bored," you can kind of suspect there's something real special keeping his interest.
  15. Waterclone

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    There is a connection. People (both clients and providers) are much more likely to consider BBFS with someone that have fucked 100 times than with someone new.

    I am not saying it happens every time. Some people will never consider it at all. But, when you have been seeing someone regularly for a few years, you feel more comfortable with them and get the idea that you know how clean and safe they are. Not that you really know, but you feel like you do, and that can be enough to open the door.
  16. justlooking

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    Of course it is.
  17. yamaha

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    if she makes you happy and takes care of you i can tell you i will stick with her for years but i will also go other places but if you like her and she treats you well there is no reason not to stick with her. like i have said before ther is no bad pu**y. have fun be safe.
  18. oddfellow4870

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    Something about boring in unimpeded methinks
  19. misterxyz

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    I don't recognize this thread being about BBFS.
  20. Slinky Bender

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    Maybe I should merge this with the BBFS thread.