Work ethic Work ethic is the key. It's more important than any of the other factors. I saw one Indy who was master of variety, but was pretty cold. The porn star experience and her great massage skills maintained my interest for two years. She had trouble creating the illusion of intimacy. My first ATF had a great personality and amazing oral and massage skills, but she got lazy and we started doing a lot of off-topic things in our sessions. Our last session was one where she "sent" me out for her lunch. I saw my last ATF for two years and would have seen her for an open ended period if she had not gone back to Korea. Skills and warmth were not the only factors. She never let down. She never tried to use me for special favors. The illusion of imtimacy was maintained throughout the session, but ended at the end of each session. She worked at it and maintained her effort without fail. If a girl knows her business and maintains a strong work ethic, she can keep regulars for as long as their money holds out. That doesn't mean that all Johns want regulars, of course.