Explicit details and YMMV

Discussion in 'General Industry Related Topics' started by Phantom, Mar 21, 2001.

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  1. Tankcommander

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    You are always invited... goes without saying...

    Let me know when you get back into town...
  2. Eye Won

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    Did I hear drinks???

    count me in
    hey Carl and Tank!!!!!! I thought I saw a post that mentioned you guys are going out for drinks. I'll just assume my invite go lost in the mail.....
    Imperialone............Out
  3. Carl M

    Carl M Hanging by a thread

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    Hey Imp!

    I should have that CD for you when you come back Imperial- have fun in NC!
  4. Tankcommander

    Tankcommander

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    Imp, you lucky bastard...

    Can I get sloppy seconds?....LOL
  5. Eye Won

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    Hey Tank!!

    Hey Tank,
    Don't sell yourself short......no pun intended..... Im in N. Carolina, with that girl I met on-line.... I got pix and I'll show you them when i get back.....
    Imperialone......Out
  6. HornDogBuddah

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    Yeah, don'tcha hate it when she says, "Is it in yet?"
  7. Tankcommander

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    I'm tiny.....

    So I sometimes get greek and the girl doesn't even notice....
  8. badz

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    [Edited by badz on 05-23-2001 at 10:01 PM]
  9. littleguy

    littleguy Gold

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    K.S.

    I get it. Hahahahaha.

    I think your tongue is planted firmly in your cheek, (no ?) but in case it's not.........

    Since all us hobbyists ALWAYS know (or should) YMMV, the size of one's penis would always fall under the YMMV umbrella vis-a-vis Greek.

    The ONLY benefit of being afflicted with the "Irish curse" is the availability of that special service.
  10. K.S.

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    I personally think that if you're going to tell people a provider does Greek, you should disclose the size of your penis.

    It has a big effect on mileage.
  11. Tankcommander

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    I said insulated,

    Not proofed...
    It takes them one extra step to figure it out, sometimes they take it, sometimes they don't...
  12. littleguy

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    Phantom,

    I don't recall ever requesting Whassup for details but I think in St Bart's case your arguments are falling on deaf ears.

    He won't reveal certain things (at least he wouldn't to me) even by e-mail, let alone postings. He uses terms like 90%+ GFE, everybody can guess what the + sign represents. He apparently likes to titillate and hold back. Maybe it's his "thing".

    Fuck that, you're right, either tell everything or nothing.

    BTW, sorry it didn't work out with Savannah.


    TankC, "BBBJ's, Dining, GFE are code words that don't mean very much in themselves, but it also insulates what is happening here from the prying eyes of law enforcement".

    You're kidding, right ?

    [Edited by littleguy on 03-22-2001 at 11:08 AM]
  13. Ozzy

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    thats what the e-mail buttons are for.........

    turn them on! this way anyone you don't want knowing, doesn't.

    i do think that this board and even jag has gotten too public to post certain things anymore. i for one would never discuss any significant details on jag anymore, let alone here.

    it's bad enough everyone runs and tells a girl everything you say in private. i don't need her reading it here too. the term "mutual respect" also is a reason to keep it off THIS board.



    :cool:



    [Edited by Ozzy on 03-21-2001 at 06:00 PM]
  14. jmcurry

    jmcurry The Insider

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    I have always believed that specific details, which replay a session without censorship, are not appropriate for any board. Those intimacies are between provider and hobbyist, and are, imo, not appropriate to share with anyone. Issues such as bondage, infantilization, dominance, role play, etc. should be left between the participants, without the need for public exposure.

    On the other hand, I personally see nothing wrong with your suggestion. If an hobbyist wishes to report that he received a BBBJ, he should not refrain from adding if it was TC, if he thought that such information was pertinent. This, it seems to me, is not part of YMMV. It does provide a yardstick for other hobbyists, while it does not compromise providers. I would never, in a session, confront a provider by suggesting that someone else reported that "she did this or that" and inquire why she was not inclined to do the same for me. But, more informed reviews do help all of us immensely.

    Having said that, I should conclude by noting that Whasssup always furnishes truthful, accurate reviews. I have, many times, followed his advice, and I have never been sorry. Cut him some slack. He gives far more than he conceals.
  15. Phantom

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    BBBJ's, Dining, GFE are code words that don't mean very much in themselves, but it also insulates what is happening here from the prying eyes of law enforcement, non-sympathetic people who surf by, and most importantly, kids.

    Also, I would only want known posters to have detailed information. In these reviews, I am describing a "crime" I am committing, albeit nothing as gruesome or consequential as what we all consider "crime" to be. This, I may share with fellow "criminals", but certainly not the world.


    If they are in fact "code words" what's the difference it the code word says BBBJ or BBBJTC?
  16. Tankcommander

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    I hope I'm not jumping in to where I'm not wanted...

    But, the forum is too public for dirty little details.
    BBBJ's, Dining, GFE are code words that don't mean very much in themselves, but it also insulates what is happening here from the prying eyes of law enforcement, non-sympathetic people who surf by, and most importantly, kids.

    Also, I would only want known posters to have detailed information. In these reviews, I am describing a "crime" I am committing, albeit nothing as gruesome or consequential as what we all consider "crime" to be. This, I may share with fellow "criminals", but certainly not the world.

    You, Phantom, are a known member of several boards, and should have no problems getting details by E-mail.
  17. Phantom

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    Whassup and Saint Bart,

    I'm having difficulty understanding your positions of not revealing explicit details of a session on a open board.

    Whassup, in your initial review of your west coast trip you stated that all three providers you have seen did BBBJ, DATY and french kissed. Are not these three things explicit details? You did not state whether the BJ's were TC. How can mentioning whether the BJ's were to completion be any more explicit then just saying that the three providers did in fact do BBBJ?

    Are we then to assume that since you did not mention whether any three of the providers you saw did or did not do FS that you consider this an explicit detail? I'm sure that allot of guys would want to know before spending $600 for an hour of an escorts time whether she is FS or just mutual oral.

    The matter of YMMV. Both Whassup and Saint Bart agree that allot of services you can receive from an escort are how you relate (YMMV) with each other. Would you not want to know what is ultimately available from each specific individual? Sort of a high water mark that you reach for. Knowing before hand what your date for the evening will and will not do is a great way of knowing afterward just how well you were thought of by the escort that you had just seen.

    I'm not saying you use such knowledge to browbeat an escort into doing something for you that you know she has done for others, such as saying to her well you did it for so and so, why not me. I'm just saying that knowing before hand, and then if
    you did or did not receive such services is a great way of knowing if the escort and you related on a higher level.

    I'm just saying that you should have some level of consistence on the matter of reporting explicit details. Saying that a provider did BBBJ, DATY and allowed french kissing are explicit details, unless of course you are a follower of the Slick Willy school of law, where a BJ is not considered sex. You mentioned a price (money) paid for a sex act, a BJ. What difference does it make whether you admitted whether the BJ was TC or not?

    All details or no details. If you decide it's no details at all, what's the use of having such sites as UG and others?