I think most everyone missed BMM point. Just back from 2 beautiful weeks in Minnesota and its alot colder here on UG. BMM was having fun acting like many on the board. It seems to many that acts of kindness are not part of this hobby. For me that couldn't be farther from the truth. I think those who have followed BMM post know that he has always gone out of his way for many of the girls he has seen. His point was if folks want to kick the shit out of him for bring a few LITTLE gifts to a provider then (lol) it must be really sick to mix V D with this hobby (both meanings apply) Wishing Happy V D to or from a provider. No harm no foul. Asking a provider to be my Valentine. Problem, time to get help.