How to pay a semi-pro?

Discussion in 'General Industry Related Topics' started by freewilly, Nov 5, 2001.

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  1. Bill Furniture

    Bill Furniture Flounder

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    Welcome back mercy!!!!!!!!
  2. mercydancer

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    Hey guys, just keep it simple.Put the cash on the table in an envelope with the words "THANK YOU" written on it. That way you don't have to hand it over hand to hand and/or claim it was there in case of a set up.

    If the lady is in a hotel room,and it's not a freebie, there is no reason why she should be embarassed to count the cash. It's not like she's there to give you bible lessons.
    Though I've had some guys yell Halleluya at the right moment
  3. Escort_King

    Escort_King Some day I will learn to post ISO's in the proper

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    paying

    Never thought women ever had a problem taking money... maybe if they see it as direct pay they baulk a little... but as the never paid back loan... etc.
  4. beep9

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    Thanks. Much more banal than what I was coming up with.
  5. justme

    justme <i>pop and click tainted</i> Vinyl ( is dead )

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    Sex Workers
  6. beep9

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    SW's?????
  7. freewilly

    freewilly

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    I like the expression Compensated Amateur (CA). Few clients, less jaded, more personal than a semi-pro. But CA's are still skittish and guilty over the money issue-it is the reason they are with you, but they don't consider themselves SW's. Even after the nicest of meeetings, the money transfer brings things back to reality. Still looking for a way to save face.
  8. remarkable

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    My experiences with a "semi-pro" have always concluded with the renumeration. Never before the fact. To me, that is one of the big differences between a semi-pro and a pro. Perhaps though, there are 3 categories: Pro, Semi-Pro, and "Compensated Amateur" or something like that. Nonetheless, it is really tough to beat the GFE experience with a true compensated amateur, when she is of the mindset to please you in almost anyway you can think of, no complaining, and unlike a real amateur or real life girlfriend or wife, you always know you're gonna get it.
  9. Escort_King

    Escort_King Some day I will learn to post ISO's in the proper

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    on the dresser

    And when you come out she has long gone.... lol
  10. Geezy Muldoon

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    I always make it very clear that it is my understanding that the arrangement is not exclusive to me, negotiate the price in advance of meeting, and give them the cash to count as soon as I get out of the shower. If exceptional services are provided a tip is given at the end of the session. Since these are independents setting their own price, no tip is required if services were just so so and laconically provided.
  11. Slinky Bender

    Slinky Bender The All Powerful Moderator

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    To add to Thorn's post, if you feel comfortable that the situation is a "go" leave it in an envelope on a dresser, nightstand, and then make an excuse to leave the room ( "may I use the bathroom?" ). This will give her a chance to go over and look at it, etc. without you being around, and may put her more at ease.
  12. Thorn

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    Never a money order, check or other written/printed document.

    She probably isn't paying taxes on this "income", and you don't need any evidence of payment for any services rendered.

    If trust levels are present and you've discussed price before hand, or she works for a house where the costs are known, leave the money in plain sight on a dresser or end table. Don't talk about it. This leaves the decision of touching/counting the money in your presence up to the Lady.

    At the end of the session, if you care to tip, leave that in the same spot you are leaving.
  13. freewilly

    freewilly

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    You have done your legwork and have negotiated and
    arranged a liaison with an "under the radar" semi-pro.

    She is somewhat new to this type of arrangement,(though not her 1st time) and has some reservations and feelings about the whole concept of compensation.

    What are some ways to soften the actual money transcation? Begining/End, Envelope/No envelope, cash/MO, Hand it over/Leave on table, cash tip/gift tip?

    [Edited by freewilly on 11-05-2001 at 01:13 PM]