It is N O T Cheating

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  1. Shoreguy

    Shoreguy Silver

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    Cheating

    Every relationship is different. The answer to your question is complex. The quick test might be to look at what you would considered "cheating " is your GF/SO did it.

    If she kisses another guy do you feel that is cheating?
    If she gives a guy a HJ is that cheating?
    CBJ is that cheating ?

    Most of what we do here is cheating perhaps that's what makes it so exciting!
  2. Bill Furniture

    Bill Furniture Flounder

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    Maybe he's a Mormon.
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  3. SkellyChamp

    SkellyChamp

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    Cheating is anything your wife says it is.
  4. justme

    justme <i>pop and click tainted</i> Vinyl ( is dead )

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    Being married to a philandering jerk is one thing, but an obsesive lunatic... whoa.
  5. justme

    justme <i>pop and click tainted</i> Vinyl ( is dead )

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    See, PJ, you didn't have to wait months for the inside joke from that thread.

    (And look, your post seems to have prompted an inside reference all by itself)
  6. BigMadM

    BigMadM Linoleum

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    My hobby is really not cheating. It has become a career.
    Im trying to excel and be the best I can at what I do.
    (does anyone think Ill get any credit from my wife for this)
  7. JackT

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    . . . only when you and Ww are debating like such manly men!
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    I think it's a predilection.
  9. Please don't tell me you jerk off while you're reading posts on U.G.

    I may have to leave.
  10. Wwanderer

    Wwanderer Kids, don't try this at home

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    Is that a prediction?

    -Ww
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    No we're not.
  12. h. von bingen

    h. von bingen Sharon

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    hic est beatissimus

    hombre says we were cheating before we met. i prefer a more bright line approach.

    corbin williston pick 'em,
    hvb
  13. Dondee

    Dondee Herbie, DDS

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    Do we have to chant in Latin?
  14. Wwanderer

    Wwanderer Kids, don't try this at home

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    Yes

    -Ww
  15. pswope

    pswope One out of three

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    JT

    I think married couples (and other committed ones) have an understanding,both implied and explicit,as to what would constitute cheating. While there may not be a meeting of the minds on all such matters, I think most men understand what actions would be viewed by their SOs as violating that understanding.
    While,I have met some SOs w/ some pretty liberal views on extra-curricular sexual activities(eg okay on lapdances),I do not know of any who would countenance having on orgasm through the actions of a working girl.
    I exclude couples with open relationships.
    Johns rationalize the violation of this understanding by endeavoring to mitigate their acts by casting them in different lights. In the end,it is merely of a form of denial,though the moral culpability of a blow-job at a bachelor party would be different than seeing working girls on a regular basis.

    I've mused wiht some fellow whorewhounds,what would be more painful to our SOs: having a brief affair w/ a non-pro or the inveterate whoring that many of us engage in.

    We concluded what would bother them most is our obsessive posting on PMBs about it.
  16. JackT

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    But logging into U.G. is by oneself as well -- and it's just thoughts too if you don't also see providers.


    How about this definition? Cheating is doing ANYTHING sexually-related against your s.o.'s wishes (or what her wishes WOULD be if you asked).

    So, depending upon your particular s.o.:
    secretly masturbating may very well be cheating
    secretly viewing porn may very well be cheating
    secretly logging onto U.G. may very well be cheating

    but, sneaking away to Atlantic City for a few hours CANNOT BE cheating, even if against your s.o.'s wishes.
    and (obviously) engaging in a threesome with your s.o.'s consent CANNOT BE cheating.
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  17. JackT

    JackT

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    In spanish, the singular your and plural your are different words.... not so in English.
  18. traderjack09

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    If my wife new I logged on here Id be taken for 50%. So in a sense this is showing the intent to cheat, and again if you dont want your wife to know it is.

    As for the dinner, same thing.

    Masturbation is by oneself, so its not cheating, they are thoughts.
  19. that's not cheating. it's poligamy.
  20. Slinky Bender

    Slinky Bender The All Powerful Moderator

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    One of your wives?