Relationships can work in this hobby but they are few and far between. Some of the best providers I know in the country are happily married. Roxy in Vegas and Trisch in AC as examples. There are many more also but for the most part providers want your money and you out of their life ASAP. They don’t want to be your lover, friend, or even talk to you unless they have too. They want your business period. Yes there are some exceptions but they are few and far between.