Porn Star Experience: the Fact and myths

Discussion in 'General Industry Related Topics' started by Stocks21, Feb 26, 2006.

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  1. nychelsea

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    I really haven't had exceptional experiences with porn stars even when I could spend the money. They were good but not great - and certainly not worth the premium. In several cases, however, I have seen them outside the agencies, and the experience was much better. Some of them always call me when they are in NYC. We meet for drinks or lunch, and sometimes do a session. The ones I've met are quite human, and have reached the stage where they are looking for other careers since they won't be beautiful forever!

    By the way, in Vegas any of the ladies start out as show girls in the stage shows, move on to become porn stars and strippers, next stop is to be a hooker, and finally they end up as sales girls in the retail stores in the casinos. Ever notice some of the fine looking older women in the shops? Guess what?????

    Enjoy,

    Chels
  2. bomber6989

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    There is actually an agency that lists a whole roster of XXX stars that tour the country. The least expensive date is $1,000, with some of the bigger stars at $1,500 and up.
  3. oddfellow4870

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    I disagree. It's plain vanilla marketing. Does a Gecko with a cockney accent tell you anything about the insurance product Geicko is selling? I finally called them and their prices were 15% ABOVE the ones offerred by my present provider. Can they be sued? No way. Selling things with symbols that don't mean a thing is basic marketing.

    New and Improved!
  4. nychelsea

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    My experience with porn stars is take an hour at most the first time, then give them your number for their next visit to NY. Meet without the agency, and the price goes down (and the fun goes up).

    Also, suggest that these chicks are tough on the pocket book so selection is critical. Save it for the ones you really want.

    Selectively,

    Chels
  5. dampfnudel

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    I always appreciate providers who list "GFE" or "PSE" but with a caveat "at my discretion". I probably won't see them, but I appreciate it anyway.
    Last edited: Mar 11, 2006
  6. ecpaul

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    My view on GFE/PSE and all other acronyms that don't tell exactly what the gal will and won't do is that they're useless...to broad in interpretation (as said before) and basically open to abuse by providers who wish to abuse them (because you can't exactly get a refund). I would rely on those gals reviewed on this board rather than an unknown...I prefer to get my money's worth and appreciate the other who have gone before me and reviewed.

    I think if a lot of these gals were in a legit business selling a product then a lot of them would be sued and run out of business.
  7. Rokin

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    The theory of relativity is so true in many ways.
    An old lady or teenager driving 80 on the highway or driving in NYC with taxis all around may find both experiences very exciting or scary. A race car driver may find the same experiences mundane.
    A hobbyist who has seen many providers may find a particular provider average or boring and a guy who has never been with another woman than his wife may find the same provider the most exciting thing in his life.
  8. un4given

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    So true. The more nuance to any definition, the more people you lose with it. I often wonder if we all really think the same thoughts, but call things by different names -- and vice versa.

    For me, PSE is something you do that is more showing off than your ordinary making love to your girl, or getting off with a hooker (for me the line between the two is very clear, and I never cross it). I had a girlfriend once who enjoyed doing freaky things, like dressing up in a catholic schoolgirl outfit, or having me spank her and call her my little ho. Some may think it really hot, but I found it more comical than arousing. Hence, I call it PSE, because it was more about how they do it in pornos, rather than how I wanted it.
  9. oddfellow4870

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    Hate to get semantical on you, but to really have this discussion, we would have to examine levels of generality. Many words are commonly and prominently used at very high levels of generality. When voters are called "working people" or justlooking is called a sophisticated New Yorker or some idiot calls Bush a liar, the meanings are variable according to point of view. Words are kept at a high level of generality for marketing, political or artistic reasons. Often, because if you cast a wider net, you get more fishes.

    GFE and PSE are fairly high level terms, but no different than many I just mentioned. When you pin down what others are thinking when they hear those words, the specific meanings are quite variable, but the general meanings have enough similarity that they have some use. If I say, I prefer GFE 8/10 visits and PSE the other 2, it communicates SOMETHING.

    How much specificity do you want? You'll notice that we rarely talk about the detailed mechanics of sex here. Why? People don't seem to want to go to that level of detail.

    So PSE doesn't mean all that much. But it does communicate something. I think most would agree that it implies nastier and wilder sex.
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  10. manohgod2

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    exactly.
  11. justlooking

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    You mean it can mean something if it DOESN'T have the same definition for the vast majority of people?
  12. Thorn

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    It is a dirty job, but someone has to do it.
  13. ricarddo

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    "So, for "PSE" to means something it has to have the same definition to at least the vast majority of folks"

    Are you the Funk & Wagnalls of hobbying?
  14. Thorn

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    True definitions are imposed. Specifically so that words have a defined point of reference that means the same thing to anyone using it.

    This is precisely why there are dictionaries, so that everyone knows the exact meaning of the particular word being used.

    So you can't say to someone, "Hey you can say the word 'edifice'' means a man made stucture but I say it means the same thing as 'orange', and don't tell me different.

    Language means nothing without shared, specific, points of reference.

    So, for "PSE" to means something it has to have the same definition to at least the vast majority of folks, otherwise it means nothing at all.
    Last edited: Mar 5, 2006
  15. Thorn

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    Which means it means nothing.
  16. UG Staff

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  17. April

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    Gee I thought you were the one that made that one up too.
  18. April

    April Member<br><color=red> First in war, first in peace

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    Make me




    (sorry i can't help myself sometimes)
  19. justlooking

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    VRS is a keeper!
  20. UG Staff

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    Watch it.