Providers who front as Dancers

Discussion in 'Stripclubs, Strippers and Porn Stars' started by ExLS, Jan 24, 2003.

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  1. shadow

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    I had a provider front as a CPA.

    I was doing my taxes when she started talking about sucking all you can out of the new tax laws. She kept saying the word sucking.

    Next thing you know I''ve got the KY jelly out and I'm banging her schedule 'A'.
  2. ExLS

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    Dancers

    Agreed. My friends is a dancer and knows that the same crap. I guess that times are tougher now that dancers turn tricks when they can.
  3. nativeNYer

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    Business trip

    Based on this subject, I wanted to talk about a recent business trip. It was near the end of my trip and I went to a local strip club near my hotel. It was near the end of the day shift when I had a really good ld with a nice looking blonde (about 33 but looked younger). After several ld, I asked her if she wanted me meet me at my hotel, she was hesitate at first, being that she never had done this before. After showing her my hotel card to be legit, we discussed a price (reasonable - also much lower than a NYC rate). And we headed back to my hotel room. This was the first time that I did this and was successful to my surprise - call it 'Beginner's Luck'.

    Can't wait for my next business trip...

    Racer
  4. genius

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    I know where you are coming from as I have seen some girls get very upset in some of the local clubs(Long Island) where a "no" answer is not interpreted as a "no". My only suggestion is to pick a club to work at where the no touch rules are strickly enforced. You won't find me there (no great loss I'm sure), or maybe the tips arent as good - but difficult and dangerous are not words I would want to think each time as I head off to earn a living. Good luck.
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  5. Danielle

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    I do not consider myself a "provider". Although if I were, I would most definetely also be a stripper, and like someone mentioned before, use the strip club venue to screen potential clientele. I mean, think about it. Isn't it better to get to know someone before seeing them privately in a situation where you could be putting yourself in danger? I think the women who turn tricks inside the clubs are just plain stupid, and this concerns me personally as a dancer because it makes earning my money more difficult and dangerous for me.
  6. justlooking

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    1. Come on, Lauren, that's the kind of stuff that sounds true if you don't know what you're talking about. Like, what my parents might think about how strippers act. You can't really believe it. (Anyway, I'm not talking about "going out" like being anybody's boyfriend. I'm talking about "going out" like hanging out together, going to a motel or her apartment, maybe hanging out some more, and then slipping her some cash.)

    2. My current favorite working prostitute (or she was a working prostitute until she retired) is someone who started out as a stripper (that's how I first met her), and based on my own experience and her reviews she's nothing like what you describe in session.
  7. uptowngirls

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    I think the only type of guy that a stripper is going to go out with is if he is handsome, or handsome and rich.If you are ugly or just average chances are she wont give you the time of day, she will take your money and break your heart.
    I had a girl working for me once that was a stripper , but now that she was older , she became a provider. I will be the first one to admit, she should have stayed as a stripper, she would rather drink a bottle of champagne with the guy then do anything else. Actually what she would do is give them a lap dance, she could time the songs perfectly , drink with the guy , then if the guy pushed the issue she would do the deed, needless to say she is no longer working with me.
    Have you guys had the same experience as that with a girl who was a stripper then became an escort?
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  8. greyfox

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    Re: cesar.andia II

    This reminded me of the first time I went to Dangerous Curves in '97.I hadn't been in any stripclub in years and was shocked when a very young,cute,petite,stoned,porcelain doll of a girl named Samantha completed her bottle pitch by informing me that she had condoms.She also told me every man needs to come at least twice a week and that I should never walk out the door of that establishment without coming.I passed on the bottle that night but loved the dive ambiance there,and that they very brazenly promoted the fact that they were the sleaziest club in town.

    Sadly,I recently learned from a girl who had worked as Lisa at Dangerous Curves and now works at Beamers, that Sam had died.
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  9. justlooking

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    Only made it better.
  10. ExLS

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    Mistake


    Sorry jl, I put some of my post in your quote, sorry about that
  11. ExLS

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    True, heck I had sex at some of these clubs.
  12. justlooking

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    But I'd argue that it's less risky (to the customer) than a brothel or MP. Really, how risky is it? And as for management, isn't it up to them rather than you to evaluate the risk they're willing to tolerate?

    (This is not to say, BTW, that I think it's smart to talk about sex acts at specific strip clubs in a public forum like this, since the clubs don't advertise themselves as providing sex. But I do think it's a little naive to pretend that on-premises sex doesn't happen all the time, generally with management's collusion.)
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  13. ExLS

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    Re: Cakes and Ale


    no big deal. Jus twanted to have a discussion with adults who do enjoy this industry
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    Re: cesar.andia II

    Good point

    Off premises - is it illegal(In this state), but less risky. do I have a problem with it, no.

    On premises - From a business standpoint which is where I started this thread - puts the hobbyist, provider, and owner at risk. Am I saying it is wrong, no, BUT it is more risky.
  15. justlooking

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    Cakes and Ale

    Sorry. Didn't really mean anything. Just a quote from some play that I couldn't resist.
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  16. ExLS

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    misuse of words

    Probably shows my views a little bit. Is there a difference with gentlemen club and strip clubs or is it semantics?
  17. ExLS

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    Virtue

    Never said that I was virtous. your words not mine. It is just a question with nothing implied
  18. justlooking

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    Yeah. Since you are virtuous, there shall be no more cakes and ale?
  19. Casper

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    cesar.andia if you're going to gentlemen's clubs you're getting low to no mileage. I hope you meant strip clubs. I think your use of that term shows how you interpret the stripper's view of herself and her activities in/out of the club.
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    cesar.andia II

    Also, there's an "apples & oranges" problem in that we're talking about two different things: sex with strippers on-premises and sex with strippers off-premises.

    The former, if it happens, is almost always something that management knows about and even encourages (just the other night, the manager of a club was thoughtful enough to bring a condom over to the Champagne Room when my bottle was beginning).

    The latter is almost always* something that management forbids and must be be kept secret from them. As you'd expect since, at least as the club sees it, the strippers are diverting fees from the club.
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    * "Almost always" because many clubs have at least some regulars who are allowed to take strippers out under the club's aegis, with the club getting a large cut of the fee.
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