The big thing to remember is not to expect the full menu to be laid on the table (no pun intended) the first or even the second time you go to a SJ AMP. They are being cautious especially now with the recent LE activity. Also, your attitude is everything. Treat the lady like a lady and most likely she will begin to return the favor shortly. These gals are there to make money and they know what the score is if they expect to reap more than the minimum tip. Once one of the gals at a particular place knows that you are safe, friendly and generous, all the gals there will know and treat you accordingly. I have actually gone to a couple of places that have been thumbed down by UG contributors and by the second visit have heard Billy Joel perform in addition to Harry James, twice the gals even played some Frank. And I am by far not a big time talent agent. Just my two cents worth here.