taking a break

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  1. Carl M

    Carl M Hanging by a thread

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    Re: yup Candide

    At least we finally got you to admit it, your not taking a break- Your Retired!!
  2. Hotpuppy

    Hotpuppy Mr.Butterworth

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    Just say when...

    Marine Park is a riot, guys in guinea tees tossing empty beer cans and epithets with equal ease all over the course. One time I was behind a foursome of Sal, Vito, Tony and Cheech, who were behind a foursome of Japanese business men playing the slowest round in golf history and these guys were absolutely vitriolic and inventive in their abuse. What a day, a true good walk spoiled.
    take care HP
  3. Candide

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    Littleguy...I like to play Myrtle Beach, Scottsdale, Vermont and Orlando and Ket West. Golf in my hometown (NYC) is depressing...I play Marine Park, that course on Staten Island, in Queens near Corona but frankly I find myself going through pails of balls with my woods off of Chelsea Pier more than anything else...It's not a bad way to spend a Saturday with a friend :) I am SO GLAD the winter is over. My handicap is bigger than my bra size :) That's all I'll say.

    H.P You lucky coot you! You're on - Vermont is smokin'! Pynchon, Soltznitzen(sp?) and Salinger move over.
  4. Hotpuppy

    Hotpuppy Mr.Butterworth

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  5. littleguy

    littleguy Gold

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    Candi,

    BTW, what's your handicap ? Where do you play ?

    Maybe we could play a round sometime. (grin) No, seriously....
  6. Candide

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    H.P. - You got it. It's on my list. By the way, isn't J.D. Salinger living in Vermont? You Independent guys you! You've got some gorgeous golf courses up there damn it! Mount Snow... I love you in summer time!

    LittleGuy, Ok I admit it. I'm just a foolish female who should be seen and not heard. Good thing I don't drive a car or can you imagine?! I'd be one of those female drivers! Driving with my foot in my mouth. I'll just keep my mouth shut from now on cause unless I am on the golf course or on the job (or in bed - asleep) I always speak what is "real" to me, from the heart and people just do not like to hear it. You aren't the only one I am sure. My "politics" is militant and passionate and I annoy people with it all the time :) By the way, if I ever heard a lady talking about another human being like what I hear in the "men's club" I'd throw away my garter belts for good. I've never known a woman to be that cold...if you find a woman that bad mouthed or mean spirited send her my way and I'll teach her some manners...in a nice way :) And you know what...that cool headed, thinking-before-you-speak kind of thing is very sexy in a man but it ain't my style. That doesn't mean I don't appreciate it's merits with all my heart :)

    Guys, I'm not talking about right-click...I'm looking into something which could make us all happy - If I find it I'll e-mail it to JAG.

    [Edited by Candide on 05-28-2001 at 07:26 PM]
  7. Hotpuppy

    Hotpuppy Mr.Butterworth

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    Can I go with you?
    take care HP
    BTW I would like a divot tool from St. Andrews to replace the one I lost. Thanks
  8. Ozzy

    Ozzy

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    you can get around "right click" very easily on any web page.
  9. littleguy

    littleguy Gold

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    Rooster,

    You've got the wrong Candie, this is Candide, not candie-gurl.

    Candie,

    I do not distrust nor do I dislike you. I don't really know you all that well. All I know is that you are an ex-provider that went through some very unfortuante times and retired. I do not know any details. I DO recall reading some of your postings that were very well though out and real.

    You often have very much to add to the conversation. But sometimes it seems when you post you are angry at someone or something. You sometimes seem to "speak" before you think, that's all. Meanwhile you accuse most, if not all, of us guys as unfeeling, coldhearted pricks, which I feel I can truthfully say is not NEARLY the case. EVEN the Jagsters, if you take into consideration that when they know they're talking amongst themselves they say one thing and when "others" are present they will conduct themselves differently, JUST LIKE FEMALES.

    You show great compassion for Janelle, and I, for one, hope you can help her. I know I cannot.

    Best of luck in that effort.
  10. ew

    ew Silver

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    Well porno sites have the right click disabled, but when you are a paid member this would not go over well with members.

    The problem then is that you have full members who can't even archive reviews that they should have access to.
  11. RoosterC74

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    Reply to the Cajun Princess and Candie Girl

    Dawn/Candie,
    How sad it is if people do not know when to leave well enough alone. I have found the two of you to be a real class act, and always willing to be quite considerate of the feelings of others. Dawn-I truly wish you nothing but the very best. Keep that Butterfly flying sweetie. I sincerely hope that all is well with you. And Candie-I hope that one day very soon that I can visit your oh-so sweet candie shop. I hear that it is full of sweet and tasty treats.

    [Edited by RoosterC74 on 05-28-2001 at 06:17 PM]
  12. Candide

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    Yeah I was inferring that cause I see a pattern here. I think someone sent a review to Dawn from JAG. That's my guess. Someone, or some people sent me lot's of painful stuff from JAG which was why I became at all interested in seeing JAG in the first place.

    And maybe it isn't JAG members...it could be competitors doing that...I don't know so I'm not blaming anyone in particular...just saying it is a horrible way to pass one's time. I don't have to worry about that anymore but I will never forget how it hurt me.

    I think there is a way to keep the material in JAG from being copied isn't there? An HTML code or something...I'll ask someone in the I.T. department about it at work tomorrow....I know there 's a way...

    And you are quite bright in my estimation littleguy...whch is why it hurt's me that you distrust me and dislike me so much. I do not dislike you.

    I think that I am going to go away for a week and play some golf....in Scotland...I need to lighten up my mood considerably. Is there anything I can bring you guys back? How about you WSB? Some single malt perhaps?

    [Edited by Candide on 05-28-2001 at 06:15 PM]
  13. littleguy

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    Which "bretheren" is that, Candi ?

    I know I'm not too bright. Are you inferring that JAG members are sending JAG reviews to Dawn ?

    I don't believe I've seen many reviews of Dawn anywhere really. Most of the writings about her are here on UG and Dawn used to more or less encourage the writings here. And, if you have a way for JAG to keep its members from sending reviews to providers, other than of course to assure any member he will be banned if he does so, I'm sure they would be eternally grateful.
  14. Candide

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    Mazeltov!

    It couldn't have happened to a better person...but you know...women like you don't ever stay lonely long :) You're a smart girl and you'll be just fine.

    Maybe the "bretheren" should tell their fellow members to stop sending those reviews to the ladies - they don't benefit by them and it ruins everything for everyone right? You'd think that the members of JAG would covet their privacy enough to do something about that little problem already!

    I hear you on the stalker stuff...I think it's the same few people...sad.

    [Edited by Candide on 05-28-2001 at 04:39 PM]
  15. LIDAWN

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    yup Candide

    i agree unfortunantly there are a few people out there whom still send me all the review links and some how think it helps me to get all bent out of shape..
    One of the resons i retired was due to some of these people who are relentless and cruel and even i hate to say stalker quality..
    I had some personall issues with a few whom are over the top.. i am going through some personal matters now with home and life and the break is great for me.. plus i think i finally may have met s gentleman that makes my world a better place...
    no secrets no lies.. lot s of honesty and reality..
    Crossing my fingers but thanks for the support honey//
    Dawn
  16. Candide

    Candide

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    Dawn,

    Reading that stuff hurt me so bad, it will take a long time for me to get over it - that was awhile ago and I'm still getting over it. Dont read it! If anyone sends it or shows it to you they are not your friends. And from what I've seen of your pictures and from what I've heard, that was definitely a fake. Have you considered the possibility that it was written by a woman? I hate to raise that negative possibility, it hurts me just to do that, but I think it should be said out loud that it's a very possible, and sadly, not uncommon occurrence. When ladies stick together more the world will be a better place. - from a northern sister who admires you and sends you her regards - Candi
  17. Bill Furniture

    Bill Furniture Flounder

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    Thanks for peeking in Dawn, whatever color your eyes are!
  18. RoosterC74

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    Response to Dawn

    Dawn,

    Everyone that ever had the pleasure to meet you knows that you are the real thing. You are sweet, warm, and full of hugs and kisses. I hope all is well with our Cajun Princess. Best of luck in all that you do.
  19. Carl M

    Carl M Hanging by a thread

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    One thing I always say is the hell with the non-believer and BS artist which Jeter is- Everyone here knows you are the real deal sweets! And you being fat- what a joke- your even overestimating your weight- LOL!! You are the real Southern Belle- not an imiatation- sweets!!
  20. LIDAWN

    LIDAWN

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    you are so silly Carl M.

    have you not read the posts on me lol giddiup..
    which one of me wou,ld u have come back..?
    the me with brown eyes? or the me with pale blue real eyes( that one was for the gentleman i never saw named jeter my friends) who described me as having brown eyes instead of the pale blue they are ( not contacts). if you are gonna make up a review at least get your facts correct.. wink.. lol bahahahahah
    the fat me or the 121 lb me? been described as both lol
    the southern me or the she is not southern lol
    i sound like mystery meat in the cafeteria right..
    grin wink

    I have said it before.....i am what i am and nothing more
    i am taking a break for me.... doing a little of this and that course a lot more of this than that.. wink grin nudge.. (yes he (GP )is nice)
    ........
    i miss you guys have a great memorial day... keep smiling there is help on the way Carl M.
    hugzzzzzzz
    long island DAWN mucho xxooxxooxxoxoxoxoxoxo