JC, Like jmcurry, I'm not married. It's not strange for me to disappear for a day or two. Sorry, but I'm not about to give you advice what out allot of facts about yourself that I'm certain you do not want to disclose. I've almost always done the extended date type thing. Mostly ON or 24 hours. I just love the relaxed atomsphere that they provide. It's amazing, but when you've become familar with one provider that you've seen over the course of years the amount of sex when you do see her goes down, but it becomes much more intense and satisfying. It becames as if it's two lost lovers reunited. You get to knew each others likes and dislikes and outside the bedroom adventures are planned. You just find joy in each others company There is a down side though. Take it from someone who's gotten lost not once, but twice. As if once wasn't painful enough. God you don't know how painful it can be. Even though the first one happen almost two years ago it still tears me apart to think about it and her. You know who you are and I know you lurk on these boards I would just like to say, "HI". Those of you who know who I'm talking about PLEASE do not mention her name. I still do the longer type dates though. Guess I'm doomed to repeat history.