what does a client really want from a provider? per opinions pls..

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  1. guy catelli

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  2. HornDogBuddah

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    Ozzie - but if we don't screen her, how will we know if she's heavily medicated or not?
  3. Ozzy

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    OETT,

    val did say A true dedicated provider

    i don't think she ment wacko's, morons and heavily medicated psychopaths. ;)
  4. One Eyed Trouser Trout

    One Eyed Trouser Trout #1 Cowboys Fan

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    slithering back into the black mist
  5. TuckernotSucker

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    Hi Val

    How is it going. I know your screen. When are you coming to visit?. Jake
  6. TuckernotSucker

    TuckernotSucker

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    Dawn's Request and MIne

    Hey,
    Screening is touchy. So is a session. If I want to touch, you have to screen. Screen away my sweet but only after you email me for an appointment.
  7. Carl M

    Carl M Hanging by a thread

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    Hey Val, How Y'all doin down in FL. Did Ct Gent come back a second time yet!
  8. ValerieXXX

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    Screening process is very important, of course one must be trusted with valuable information. That is absolutly sacred. A true dedicated provider will not disclose anything. So need to worry my male compadres!!!!!
    Now I do hear there is a new Hannibal movie coming out soon ........LOL.....I can't miss that!! But on the flip side of the coin, we want our ladies to be safe right? If anything happens, hey think of their family that they could leave behind, all for what? Because their screening process could not be complete? I for one would not see that person for fear of something happening. Also, if anything does transpire, you would not see her again, understand? So in all fairness, let us honor our agreements, keep the discretion, on our part, and guys, understand our need to be safe, and why (family etc)
  9. guy catelli

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    sometimes a cop is a dick

    all the better to enjoy it, APM, all the better to enjoy it ;)
  10. Slinky Bender

    Slinky Bender The All Powerful Moderator

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    "I think it is important that during the time you spend with your client he is the only man on earth - and also the only subject on your mind"

    BING !!!!!! I can't tell you how much of a turn off it is for me to hear about someone's daily grind/problems in the middle of a session. Especailly problems with other people: boss, friends, lover, husband

    HER: "My husband has been bugging me again. He says I better not get back into escoting again or he'll kill me"

    ME:"Get back into escorting ?"

    HER: "Yeah, he doesn't know I never stopped. Stupid cop ! "

    ME: "He's a cop ?"

    HER:"What time is it ? ...( looks over at clock ).....Honey, you'd better hurry up and finish, he's due home any minute".
  11. pswope

    pswope One out of three

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    Willow
    I do not know you ,nor am I familiar with your screening practices.
    While I totally understand the need for the ladies to protect themselves,I've come to understand that the info provided by a John,under what I consider to be an implied,if not explicit agreement of confidentiality is shared with others without the consent of the John giving it. There have also been reported instances of abuse of this info ,where conflicts between the lady and john,unrelated to security,have arisen.
    These episodes include posting johns" names and numbers on public or semipublic boards,as well as contacting employers.
    Ultimately,each respective side must decide for themselves. If a lady can maintain her desired level of business,then of course she should use whatever screening procedures make her comfortable. As well,there are plenty of great ladies out there,who don't have,what I regard to be onerous procedures. These are the ladies I see.
  12. Willow

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    High Expectations are Expected and Given...

    I enjoy giving my undivided attention to a client. I think it is important that during the time you spend with your client he is the only man on earth - and also the only subject on your mind. During a session don't think about your laundry, school, or shopping! The feeling of giving great satisfaction goes a long way on both the provider's part as well as the client's. If I stick to the two things I mentioned here - I am certain to have a happy client who will want to see me again and again.

    As to the screening process - I for one, am big on screening. You can never be too careful, not realistically given the nature of the business. I think getting as much info. as possible is a good thing for the provider. To make the client feel better, as a provider, it is important to build a solid reputation as an honest and talented escort. I have a review section on thefoxfiles.com and am also under "People Choice Ladies" at thefoxfiles. This has put some uneasy clients at ease with giving me their personal info. since I am who I say I am - and it is verified by a third party.
  13. One Eyed Trouser Trout

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    No message...just trying to post the 1200th message on the board so I can tell my grandkids
  14. Slinky Bender

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    justme,

    But we were talking about a commercial transaction....

    BTW Do you know what you call a single, straight male who owns a cat ?
  15. justme

    justme <i>pop and click tainted</i> Vinyl ( is dead )

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    fletch - She asked what I was looking for. If I could get 50% of the feeling of 'the guy walking through the door' then I'd be happy with the experience. I think in another world, I may have told you about a girl who surprised me by offering a good % of this experience.

    SB - This is 'off topic' but in my non-commercial encounters (and literally) I prefer 'cats'. I like the challenge of getting a cat to like me, the fact that a cat is independant, and the special type of loyalty that cats offer. Dogs are just too easy. On the other hand, if I'm paying for an experience, I don't ever want to run into a cat in one of its pissy moods.

    PS - I hope everyone takes this metaphor for what it is. I view all women in my life as people (and thus far more repellant, on the average, than either cats or dogs)

    CarlM - Alas, I'm sure I'll have to take your word for it as LI is a bit of a drive for me.

    HDB - Imagine if you got that kind of thorough treatment from an AMP.

    I remember one time I came home to find my S/O in a similar condition to what I described, but rather than rushing to the main event, she first bathed and massaged me (all the while making me very aware of what I was about to get)... very AMP, no?

    ***************

    And that reminds me... when I describe that (admitedly insanely ideal) situation, I don't have any activities in particular in mind. Different women react to 'that mood' in different ways. What I want is the feeling (I don't need genuine emotions... just convincing ones) that I am getting just what that woman would give in that situation. If it involves a ravishing... fine, a teasing... fine, a spoiling... again, fine. I look more for impressions than I do for events.
  16. HornDogBuddah

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    It depends upon the circumstances and my expectations. For example, in AMPs I am not looking for GFE -- I let her table shower me, dry me off, massage me, and then either manually manipulate the conclusion or climb on board for the first of what seems to be a ritualized progression from cowgirl to missionary to doggie (sometimes the last two are reversed). Not much difference from one AMP to another, from one state to another, even from one country to another. There is usually little advance planning required: it's almost as if you simply scratch when you have an itch. On the other hand, when sessioning with a provider with whom I have had one or more exchanges of information and made an advance appointment, my expectations are much, much higher. I'm expecting her to look great, smell great, taste great, feel great, sound great (!) and, certainly, sex great (did I just make up a new usage?). She should want to make me feel great, and I want to experience the pleasure of making her feel great, so we play off one another, with a positive spiralling of intensity of feeling.
  17. Carl M

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    Bro what you just stated- get ready because she will do exactly that- she does not wasted any time- she'll go right for the Lips! LOL!!
  18. Slinky Bender

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    I'll state it another way than JM, but please no one "read too much into it".

    Guys like dogs, not cats. You know, when you come home, how the dog acts ? Like he thought you might not be coming home and he's so glad to see you, even though this is exactly how he's reacted every day before for 7 years. So when the guy comes in, wag your tail and act excited to see him, and he's likely to pet you, feed you, and rub your tummy.
  19. fletch

    fletch Voice of Reason

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    jm, if the title of this board weren't Utopia Guide, I would say that you were asking for too much.

    [Edited by fletch on 01-31-2001 at 02:10 PM]
  20. justme

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    Dawn -

    Have you ever been in love, I mean really in love, with someone for years. And you know them so well, and you've done just about everything under the sun. And one day you're sitting there at home and you're just super horny, but they're still at work. Well, you're just sitting there thinking about just what you're going to do to that person when they walk through the door.

    I want to be that person walking through the door.