Discussion in 'Polls Archive' started by puffin, May 30, 2009.
Aha! Thank you for clarifying.
nope. it's not about necessarily loving the client, but about loving what you're doing. why do people always assume true love is for a person? i am VERY lucky and have amazing clients, nonetheless, my first love is the art of pleasure.
Perhaps sometimes a session can also be too realistic?
Hi, butterflydust. Nice to see you reappear. But "true love"? You mean as if, right?
it looks like i am pretty late on this bandwagon, but i'm throwing my change in anyway.
call me an idealist, but i think a true "GFE" is one where it feels as if, for the time you share together, the two of you are the only people in the world who matter.
you can kiss - and still be cold. you can give a BBBJ, without any real love for the act itself. a GFE pours true love into every touch, every kiss, every rotation of her hips.. every breath.
I once saw a girl that advertised herself as GFE. She refused to kiss, bbbj, or daty. I reminded her about her ad saying GFE. She tells me that GFE means she'll be nice and give the full amount of time. What a joke!
I started visiting strip clubs in Sarasota, then moved to R&T and then full service AMP. At first I was looking for attention and some physical release. When I shifted to Incall/Outcall was when is all changed for me. I was looking for conversation and time away from the real world and responsiblities. I wanted to slip into this world where I was the center of attention. For me, that's what I'm looking for in a GFE. Its more than physical and its not some cheap porn splash. But as has been said its all about perspectives and personal choice.
Hey Slinky, I have been registered on this forum for a very long time but have only posted maybe twice. I wanted to ask a q regarding UG stuff with which I had some experience back in the day, and understand that scene is pretty quiet these days. I have some specific names and locations to cite in order to validate my question. But I can't seem to post a new thread in either the UG or ISO section, I'm guessing I have to have a certain number of replies in threads to qualify, or is it something else? I'd PM you but I can't find a way to do that. Can you let me know what the best approach is?
It can be summed up as a generous attitude, as if she really cares about your pleasure.
It's obvious, GFE is a Great Fucking Experience.
GFE is in the eye of the beholder. My retired ATF gave me what I considered to be GFE and all was covered. Then one day, lo and behold, she adds BBBJ to our sessions. Needless to say, I was enthused but I always considered her services to be GFE, covered or not. True GFE is definitely a YMMV situation. It's all about chemistry...
Exactly what I said, though you used fewer words getting the point across.
Which, I would think, goes to the other point I was trying to make. That is has to do with the perception of the client. If the provider was able to have the client walk out the door thinking he got "GFE" [whatever that means] then she provided GFE.
Agreed, but there is some truth to the otherwise rather crude comment that men pay for sex one way or another.
Attitude and some other intangibles play a huge part, not just a laundry list of acronyms that are on the menu. BBFS with a shitty attitude is NOT a GFE. Well, ok, it did happen with one of my ex's but, then again, that's why she's my ex-gf now.
GFE and PSE are not defined terms. For example, SOME agencies use if as a euphmism for BBFS. But in general, at this point I find GFE to be more of a marketing term, like Realtors using "charming" - WTF does that really mean?
And for those who want to say it IS some pre-defined set of actions/acronyms, I can give tons of examples of sessions where dfk, cfs, bbbj, daty and msog occured, but the session was nowhere near GFE, but can also think of sessions which were only laying in bed, relaxing, kissing and getting a HJ which I would consider GFE.
I was wondering when we'd get around to discussing THAT article.
So..."bottle girls" are hookers, semi-pros, non-pros?? None of the above........discuss
This is one of those few times when I want to scream my opinion aloud: "nothing beats bare back sex!" Sorry but I had to say it. You want to call it LTR/GF-experience or whatever, but that's the fact Jack.
So we'll have to disagree. I don't want to get a girl knocked up, gf or not, and i do not trust medicinal birth control, I like to ensure, the best i can, that things are safe.
Some women respond very poorly to hormone based contraceptives.
We're in a way too different era now for this to be true.
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