Discussion in 'General Industry Related Topics' started by candie, Apr 12, 2001.
sorry, haven't exactly figured how to get the quote thing right yet!
OOOH wow Paige, your dipping back into the real world! WoW! I sometimes think about it, then I remember. Much happier this way for me.
Candie u r a doll
Candie I knew from her first post she had an attitude and u are much too sweet to have to deal with this,Now u know why I have gone back to school to get out of this biz and back to the life I once had ,very few people can u trust. I trust u Candie because I always had a sense that u had a good heart perhaps u are naiive because u want to believe people are good and they just aren't my love.Don't worry she will get her just desserts.
Love to Candie Gurl never an after taste
Your Pal '
PS Candie thnx for caring about me. It helped me today sso much.
ah, so it's not another asp message board or a new screen name; rather, it's an establishment.
btw, how 'bout this 'Lola': -- she sounds hot: http://www.bigdoggie.net/discussion/posts/37506.html
does anyone have any pics of her?
[Edited by guy catelli on 04-13-2001 at 04:55 PM]
no GC . That was the place she said she wanted to go for incall till things cooled down.
Don't want to say her name as I know she has clients here.
"fuc*factory" is her screen name?
I assumed it was a name she made up. I wouldnt think she wouldn,t want anyone to know her location, for obvious reasons.
Candilicious, c'mon, babe, email with the name of this 'fuc*factory'. she sounds like my kinda dame.
I am amazed at the last email from her I received. She sure hates men! What a cold person she is. I thank all of you for your thoughts on this one. How could someone be in the business with such a vicious attitude, what a shame!
1. most dont need to lie. Thats one of the perks in this business clients don't have to lie and providers are self destructive if they do ultimately hurting their business. She was wondering why the business has slowed a few weeks ago..... >rolling her eyes<
2. Yes we are all great actresses, but we can still have lots of fun and real bells can ring!
GC, I want you to write 300 times I will not cut and paste.
i'm not sure about that part, either.
I KNOW this is too simplistic, but
1.) the activity is illegal, therefore lying is inevitable to some degree.
2.) Most guys are looking for fantasy or the lady is acting (lying ?) to help him acheive as pleasurable an experience as possible.
3.) There is a lot of money involved. Where there is money, there are liars.
Maybe I'm MORE cynical than most, but I'm, not sure about that.
well said candie
other than ripping me off, the fastest way for an escort to loose me as a client(and also for a person to loose me as a friend) is to lie to me. i value honesty above everything. as to why they do it? who knows. maybe it's for the simple reason of because they can. . why do some providers go by multiple names at the same time? what are they trying to hide?
except for a few slip ups, i try to take everything i hear with a grain of salt.
phantom, i feel for you. i too know what it feels like to be manipulated and used. maybe not necessarily to the extreme that you describe, but it was still very painful for me. thank goodness i had 2 wonderful friends to help me through it. one from my private life and one in the business. from the business side my special lady friend has never been anything less than 100% honest with me. i trust her with my life. and i cherish our friendship.
I'll go further and suggest you just can't trust too many people in general !!! I've come to realize as I get older and hopefully wiser, that the more people I talk to, the more I like animals better. Who knows ANYONE's motives for doing or saying anything. Heck not even those people know, why would we know.......
Reminds me of why I'm glad I have very very few close friends.
"What goes around, comes around"? I seriously doubt it. EVERYONE took her side of the story because of who she is. And for trying to get her to talk to me honestly about what happened and not hiding behind email, I got the label of STALKER
Yet if I was really a stalker I could have shown up on her front steps one day, because SHE told me her real name and address. Something I NEVER did.
no way Phan
I don't agree with what you said. I do think though what goes around comes around. She will get hers. But you were taught a lesson that stung for sure. Please don't think your a dick with a wallet. Sure were in this for the money but you I am sure have taken clients out to dinner you liked and perhaps you got thier biz, perhaps not. Playing is fun but playing that way is always temporary for those types..and theres just so many of them. Learning the warning signs helps avoid them. Lots of desparte women out there... beware
[Edited by Phantom on 04-13-2001 at 01:48 PM]
I see what your saying SB, points well taken and its does certainly happen a lot!!!
I just get frazzeled when I don't understand someones motives!
Now she moves to fuc*factory till things blow over. I just don't understand this thinking. The next day he even appoligzes on the board?
On the subject of providers lying to clients here's a huge one and I do not hold what this one provider did against every provider, but god did this screw up my life.
I was seeing this one provider for close to a year. The last time I saw her she told me that she wanted to see me outside of work and that she wanted to come back and spend weekends with me without me having to pay. She knew I had feelings for her, but during this meeting they were in check, I was just enjoying my time with her, yet she said these things and she must have know the effect of saying such things to me would have on me. All the other times that I had seen her she was very measured in her words. Never saying anything that could be misconstrued
During the 24 hours following the time she said these things to me I asked her a couple of times if she really meant what she had said and each time she said yes.
The night after she said these things to me I once again asked her and she totally denied ever saying any such thing. She told me that I only wanted to hear what I wanted. She also compared it to two people witnessing an accident with each having a different version of what happened. .
Do you have any idea what it's like to search for something all your life without finding it? And then after you've given up hope of ever finding what you've searched for, it's just drops into your lap, totally out of the blue. And then imagine just as suddenly it appeared it is ripped cruelly out of your hands. You have no idea how much this hurt me, both emotionally and physically. You see after receiving a very hostile email from her I got very aggitated and suffered a heartattack.
After she denied saying any such thing to me, I reacted like anybody would. I was very hurt and confused. Yet I was accussed of creating the whole problem. In her words I "created chaos out of nothing".
But you know no one cares, since I'm just another dick with a wallet, so what the fuck.
[Edited by Phantom on 04-12-2001 at 03:08 PM]
Separate names with a comma.