Xtremely Rare Non Pro Score

Discussion in 'Craigs list & Backpage' started by jed253, Apr 4, 2006.

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  1. clicker2659

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    re: billy s post

    i did the same thing and i do like black or asian or white women and i am a wm...
    not a racist so.. u know love all people...
    and a couple women did answer my ads and saw my pics i sent em by *****
    and one did follow up and one didnt..so....
    i will get back in touch with them.. who knows..?
    maybe they were busy or something came up but seems like u found someone to have a good time with and the girl stating" she on the pill" well its either true or not true?? its a chance u take...
    Last edited: May 17, 2006
  2. un4given

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    That's right, slinky, my $20 investment in matchmaker.com back in the days and my CL ads make me a pro! :)
  3. jed253

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    Very Cool! I am glad it worked out so well for you!
  4. jed253

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    I would never post a pic on CL, There is a very good chance that someone you know would run across it. I personally run a bunch of different adds hitting on different things. If I posted a pic everyone would know it was me "again" only with a different story.
  5. Ozzy

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    Casual encounters/Miami
  6. gg2002

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    - If you wouldn't be horrifed at the thought of men "reviewing" or even discussing your "adventures", then you're not a non-pro. (I've seen alleged non-pros pinting to their reviews...... defintely "pro" if you like being reviewed)

    She would be horrified

    - If you place ANY paid for ad, you're not a non-pro

    Doesn't apply

    - If you place more than one ad a week on CL, you're not a non-pro (in fact, if you ever place any ads on CL ES at all you may not even be a non-pro).

    She placed an ad(maybe more than once) on CL ES

    - If you do ANYTHING either "by the hour" or "by the pop", you're not a non-pro.

    Her short lived services were by the hour/ half hour.

    -If you give a CBJ, you're not a non-pro (has anyone here ever had non-paid for sex where they got a CBJ? And by "non-paid for" I'm not talking about a freebie from a pro)

    Every BJ I got was without.

    - If you have a web page which mentions this type of stuff in any way, you're not a non-pro.

    No web page

    -If you have a "schedule" of how many guys you see a week, you're non a "non-pro" (i.e. you see 3 guys a week, or your "goal" is to see 3 guys a week". To be a true "non-pro" it has to be much more "random"

    Doesn't apply.

    I would agree that as far as the massage thing goes, she crossed the line from non-pro to pro. Everything that happened from there was non-pro for sure.
  7. Slinky Bender

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    OK, so which of my criteria doesn't apply to her?
  8. Daddycool

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    Where did you find her? In casual area or the erotic area? I post more in the erotic and do not come up with very much and want to see maybe I should change venues of where I post.
  9. Ozzy

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    I made the score of scores off CL this week... but I haven't been convinced she's 100% the non-pro she says she is... though I'm almost certain she is.
  10. gg2002

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    continued

    The next day I go online and she IM's me. I ask her about how things went hte rest of the day and she was so happy that I cared and such. I then asked her if it had bothered her that I was sucking on her breasts and wondered if that was why she stopped me. She said it was because it was turning her on too much and she didn't want to get carried away. Then she tells me she had later wished she had let me continue.
    So I ask to see her again and she is not at all interested in a massage, but just wants to have lunch and get to know me. So we go to lunch, talk and then make a plan to get together again at the same hotel.
    I've seen her probably 30 times and had sex probably 20 of those. No money. A few times I asked her for a massage and gave her some money and she tried not to let me give it to her.
    I was the last sensual massage she gave, according to her.
    As far as I am concerned this girl is not a pro at all.
    She needed some extra cash and thought of the massages as a way to get it.
    Was she a pro with regard to giving a HR. Yes, a few times, but gave it up as quickly as she started and wasn't looking for money at all with me.
  11. gg2002

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    There really are no hard and fast rules for this:
    I answered an ad for a sensual massage on CL ES and *****ed back and fourth until I felt comfortable that I wasn't going to waste my money because I had to get a hotel due to her only doing it outcall. She turned out to be incredibly hot. Of course in my mind at this point I consider her a pro on some level and I am hoping something might happen in the same way we hope so in an amp. SO I get nude and she strips to her g string and starts on my back. She is black, slim, perfect D breats and pretty. After a while I ask to turn over and reach up and start to play with her nipples. She's fine with it as she plays with me. Then I ask if I can suck on them and she says ok. So I do this for a couple minutes and she's playing with me at the same time and has her eyes closed lie she is in some trance. All of a sudden she says "ok" that's enough, let me concentrate on you. I figured we had gone further than she intended so I didn't try for any more and just enjoyed the rest of the massage and HR. MAssage was ok but release was nice.
    Afterward, we talked a bit and she told me what she had going on the rest of the day. I asked her how many guys she massages and she told me I was the third. So I asked if it was cool if I *****ed her again and she said she would like it it I did.
  12. jomama

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    When you guys place ads, do you post a pic?
    I noticed that there are so many m4f ads that any posting seems to get lost.
  13. jed253

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    Tried to edit this but my time ran out. I meant to say I dont care what term is used rather than who they are.
  14. jed253

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    I apologize in advance if a provider ever uses that term. I think GFE is the term they use and will all know that its so over used that its basically meaningless.
    I doubt any provider would want to role play that out for what amounts to a heavily discounted price. But if there is a hot trim woman who would like to spend some open ended time with me, has a regular job and clearly not an addict or psycho, then I really don't care who they are.
  15. Dittoe the above & then some

    Dave << with all due respect I would have to agree with jed, in that just as the definitition of any term can not be too specifiic it can not be so broad as well. I have had the same career/profession for 22 years now. 3 summers ago by brother in law asked me to help him do a few Central Air installations with him(which he does professionaly). Now since I am on salary with what I do but make my own hours this worked out since I needed to catch up on some bills(my dwindling whoring funds). I did about 5 or so over the course of 2 months and was actually paid handsomely. However I would DEFINITELY NOT say I am a professional by any strectch. Nor would anyone else consider me to be. So what exactly is the difference in this analogy?? Trust me you don't want to hire me on my own to install your Central Air. But if push came to shove I could certainly help you out for cheaper than my brother in law would. Just like jeds lil friend is good in a pinch & cheaper than say, Mickie, Amy, Kimmie etc. Add to this what slinky says as well and you begin to get a more distinctive definition.

    All that said mind you, gotta laugh when I see some "non Pros" who do advertise on CL and ask for ridiculous rates for doing next to nothing. But contrary to slinkys assesment I still believe they are "non pros" because they obviously have no clue as to what a sensible rate struucture is. Then again, some moron wll always pay anyway, so sorta like Mickie they find their niche.
  16. justlooking

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    I think this is exactly right. (Including the last sentence.)
  17. justlooking

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    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't do this.

    PLEASE.
  18. jed253

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    I think we can all agree on using the term "Non Pro Experience" or NPE"

    In this way a person who might be defined as a pro can give you the experience of a non pro.

    Just one other thing. Just to shed some light on this girl I was with. When we got to the motel I turned on the TV and it was on the porn channel. She told me that she didnt like to watch stuff like that. How HOT is that!!! That is what I am talking about as a "NPE".
  19. edge7981

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    I tend to agree with Jed that just because you got paid once are twice, it doesn't make you a pro. If a young guy with a full time job is asked and accepts a job parking cars one night to earn a little extra cash, is he now a "professional parking valet?"

    We'll never get complete agreement on the semantics of this. Personally, I go with the definition that if a woman is not dependent on this income AND only does this on occasion and not on a regular basis, she can be considered a non-pro.

    Of course, that only opens up further discussion about what constitutes "a regular basis..."
  20. DaveNJ

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    Jed-don't get me wrong, I'm glad you had a good time and hooked up with her for such a reasonable price.

    I just disagree with your definitions that's all. Any time someone takes money for a service, they can claim to be a professional in that particular field. Whether they do it once a month/year, whatever...doesn't change anything.

    Oh, and for what it is worth, I'd agree that there are many women out there who should be considered pros because they use sex to extort labor/gifts/$$/etc from their husbands. They are just a pro with one client.