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Discussion in 'Northern New Jersey' started by DannyNJ, Oct 15, 2001.

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  1. buddyyy

    buddyyy

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    While each person is obviously free to post whatever they want on this or any other Internet Board I do not think that implies an obligation on the part of anyone who posts anything to present information that for whatever reason they feel should not be posted.

    What information is shared, with whom, and whether publicly or privately is something that each person should decide for himself or herself.

    Even if these are solely commercial transactions, which personally I don’t think is always the case, one of the elements of the transaction is the agreements each party makes concerning the disclosures of information about the transaction.

    While there may not even have been a specific explicit agreement, the client assumes that the provider will not discuss their experience with a client in just about every context in a manner which would compromise the clients confidentiality.

    There is no reason that other such agreements cannot be made as well. There is no reason that a provider cannot request that certain information not be made available publicly, and I would expect that if such a request were made and agreed to that it would be kept.

    If you prefer to retain the right to publish your experience without limitation that is your right. I would expect though that if you were to be asked to refrain from publishing information that you would decline to do so - even though that might mean that a specific provider might not see you.

    On the other hand, if you or any other potential client only want to see providers about whom you are able to find published information, providers who chose to ask that information not be published would potentially be limiting the people who might be interested in meeting with them.

    So even from an objective commercial perspective there is no obligation to present every detail publicly, indeed doing so may explicitly violate one of the terms of the agreement.

    Beyond that I personally feel that it is appropriate to be considerate and responsible. Even though there is a commercial element in these relationships there is also a personal one as well. Indeed when we sense that a provider has depersonalized the experience too much, we don't like it, and will say things like mechanical or did not really seem to be into what they were doing. So if we want to encourage the women we are with to put more of themselves into the time they spend with us, it seems to make sense that we relate to them as people and not machines. Which just means being sensitive.

    I value the information that I am able to obtain from this board. And I recognize that the information is available because people choose to share it. So this is not intended to imply that people should not share information. I do think however that the responsibility to be an active participant on the board should be weighed against the responsibility one might have to the provider, and that in all cases it is desirable to be honest and sensitive.
  2. Crazyphingers

    Crazyphingers

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    Since when do you need permission from a provider to post a review? I thought the best thing about this board was the openess of the reviewers to give to an idea if you would like or dislike a similar experience.

    It is unfortunate that you need to already know people to get any info sometimes, how is a newbie supposed to get settled in here?

    THis woman is an advertised provider yet giving a review will affect her privacy?? Why post anything in the first place??

    I am not trying to give you a hard time I am really just curious and found this odd.
  3. HappyGilmore

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    Bill,
    While I would like to post it here, I was not requested, nor do I have permission from her to post. In order to protect her privacy, I will only provide the info to regular posters like you Bill.
  4. Bill Furniture

    Bill Furniture Flounder

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    Post it here Gilmore, we all wanna hear what makes you happy!
  5. justme

    justme <i>pop and click tainted</i> Vinyl ( is dead )

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    Piling on?
  6. RoosterC74

    RoosterC74

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    Same Old Stuff

    Lurking-but could not resist once again. It looks like someones Lithium hasn't kicked in yet!
  7. HappyGilmore

    HappyGilmore

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    <----= Took one for the team. Regular posters email for some detail..........
  8. Allen

    Allen Webmaster?

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    now now boys, play nice please.
  9. Phantom

    Phantom

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    You might not have shared the graphic details of your date with Pamala, but you sure as hell shared other much more personal details of Pamala's private life with me.

    [Edited by Phantom on 11-11-2001 at 06:10 PM]
  10. Hotpuppy

    Hotpuppy Mr.Butterworth

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    Wow, phantomwilly...

    ...you still have your shorts in a twist over that? Well, here's a little clue to that bit of inconsistency on my part. I do give out graphic details... just not to YOU :D
    HP
  11. Phantom

    Phantom

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    hypocritical?

    You should be the last person to ever accuse someone else of being hypocritical.

    When asked for the graphic details of your review of Pamala-Miami you said, "No, I don't give out those sort of details". While this is probably not the exact quote, I'm sure with a little time I can get your exact words.

    When told that you could not give me the graphic details, I asked you, "would you (Hotpuppy) have seen Pamala in the first place if you had not asked for and received the graphic details about Pamala that I asked of you?"

    Your answer, NO. Talk about being a hypocrite, but I guess it takes one to know one. Huh, Hotpuppy?



    [Edited by Phantom on 11-11-2001 at 05:47 PM]
  12. Hotpuppy

    Hotpuppy Mr.Butterworth

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    Allen is the moderator

    No argument about that, I am simply one member commenting on anothers obvious hypocritical posting, or to quote our other esteemed moderator-" three words: pot, kettle, black"
    HP
  13. Phantom

    Phantom

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    Last I looked Allen was still the moderator of this NJ board.
  14. Hotpuppy

    Hotpuppy Mr.Butterworth

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    Continues to boggle the mind...

    ...that anyone with a documented history of subterfuge would continue to question the veracity of any other member and/or their posts.
    HP
  15. Phantom

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    Maybe Knightman and softailrider will make an appearence here and provider details of what a session with Jen is like.
  16. joe07834

    joe07834 Guest

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    jenn

    Hi - I have had several e-mail and one phone call from Jenn - I have not met her yet because she does not travel more then 20 minutes, you can go to her, sounds very sexy on the phone like a nice person fun time, I will meet her soon. ANYONE MEET HER ?? IF SO WHAT IS SHE LIKE ?? WHAT WILL SHE DO?? WHAT DOES SHE NOT DO??? THANKS JOE
  17. marc

    marc

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    Irish hottie, maybe you should learn how to send e-mail!! You have e-mailed my three or for times, and always, everything comes out blank !
  18. Aristotle

    Aristotle Just another girl on the IRT

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    Any good recommendations for chat rooms ?
  19. Xxxirishhottie22

    Xxxirishhottie22

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    Boys, Boys, Boys.....

    Ok, you guys are too paranoid- the fact is, softailrider is in lots of escort chat rooms and there is talk of UG there...I should know, since some agencies and indies I know or have worked with are posted in here as well. As for Knightman, I chat with him, and told him about it so he could post his opinion. I don't need self promotion- I do fine on my own- that's funny. Just so everyone knows, I've been in this line of work off and on for 4 years, so I'm not some stupid amatuer without a following. And, I do answer e-mails- for example, magnumman wasn't receiving my messages because he had a problem with his mail.


    P.S. thanks, Dandydon- I hope to see you soon, too sweetie
  20. DandyDon

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    Guys, I got an email back from Jen yesterday. Basically an intro type letter with 3 pics included. It definately looks like there's some great possibilities. I'm hoping to get together with her soon.